OP you realise school lunches are not free, right?
You realise, for some children, this is their only hot meal of the day?
No problem with supplying pencils, however I’m really confused as to why these things are an issue in primary school. They were free when I went to school, how was it funded then?
I did mention donating to the school annually because all the non-uniform days were p*ssing me off. But they were the big money makers other than the summer fair. I also can’t stand teachers buying the kids sweets as a reward. My daughter has dodgy teeth (born that way), and food related rewards should not be a thing anyway.
High schools, I’d much prefer a relevant textbook, rather than folded sheets of paper in pockets. We had these too, back in the day, loaned, covered (in delightful wallpaper), and returned at the end of the year.
I’m not sure what the issue with graffiti on desks or dick drawings is. It never halted my learning. I had other issues.