What random / secret things do you find attractive?!

[Luckyduck88]

So... here are the random things I find attractive in a man.

-someone who is good at catching. This sporting prowess makes me weak at the knees.

-an effortless parallel parker. Swoon.

-Smoking. Hear me out... I do not want a smoker in fact I'd actively avoid a man that smokes... but deep down maybe it's the Hollywood old school glamour (or more likely deep seated crushes on the bad boy at school lighting up behind the bike shed) hangs head in shame

What are your slightly less obvious 'secret' things that make you fancy someone?

@Decormad38

My dp wears checked pj bottoms but my dad also wears them all the time too so it's very much a turn off for me 😂

I remember as a teenager being in Rouen for the day and seeing all the sexy French men striding through the city centre in their trench coats at office tipping-out time. It made quite the impression. So, a man in a good coat. But you never see them here.

@ratonastick a guy in my office comes in with his tie untied every day- is well off putting

DH in an old school rugby shirt (the ones with a proper collar). Or in a suit.

He has a grey cap that he wears when he walks the dogs which make him look so handsome [random]

Hands - big but neat.

Confidence (not arrogance). When someone is quietly self assured and it gives them a presence.

Good with animals (watching DH handle horses makes me 😍) - mix of confidence and gentleness.

Big, wide strong shoulders (I have a definite soft spot for rugby players)

I love very fit, lithe men. Doing things like jumping over fences/gates, lifting very heavy things...just makes me weak at the knees

Rolled up shirt sleeves and slightly tanned forearms, while changing gear in a car.

My DH has an automatic now and it just isn't the same

I make him drive my car in the summer

ToeDust you need the Yoga in Kilts book... ;)

For me, its a posh accent, intellectual confidence, smelling good, a good suit OR a Guernsey / clean jeans look, how he is around staff/waiters, and whether he can make me laugh. Oh and kind yet fuck-me eyes help!

Just reading back.

I was once stopped by a policeman in a stab vest, it was the least sexy thing that has ever happened to me and he was the most unattractive male that has ever crossed my path. And that is saying something. He was the ultimate cock, God it still makes me shudder and this was more than 10 years ago.

Men steering with the palm of their hand (god knows why)

This really irritates me - it's like they're trying to show off somehow, but there's nothing impressive about it and it just looks stupid.

Total thread derail. @StripeyChina OMG I've just looked at that yoga and it's the funniest thing I've ever seen 😂

A man whose smile when he sees me lights up his face. A man who runs and loves music. A man with strong arms.

I like it when a guys sleeves are a bit overlong and cover the back of their hands and reach the first knuckle on their fingers.

I love a man with a beard ...

Interesting to hear others preferences

Beard or no beard ???????

'Scruffy' men. Not dirty, they have to be very clean and smell nice, but smart/suits don't do it for me.
Men with long dark hair.
Men with eyeliner.
Cuban heels.
(Yep, l grew up in the glam rock era. Adam Ant and David Bowie)
Patchouli on men. l hate it on women but it's divine on men's skin.
Beautiful hands.
Very old jeans. Especially with Cuban heels. :D

l'm going for a lie down now.

Finger tattoos and guys who are totally messed up. Broken? I know I can't fix you but I'll fall over myself trying!

Suit but with the jacket off, rolled up sleeves, top button undone and tie slightly askew.

A quiet confidence (not arrogance) but could totally quote Bryon and Shelley. Crisp RP accent.

Veiny hands, pock marks and big noses 😂

@katseyes7 Yes eyeliner! Had the biggest crush on Brian Molko during my teens!

Fiveredbricks Oh god, yes. Give me a horny handed artisan any day. l've been out with a few guitarists, and they always have calloused fingers.

@SummerIsNearer Omg I'm not alone with the Ralph Fiennes Schindler's List thing

Men who can fix things
Dimples
Seeing men have fun with their kids
Men who wear scarf with their coat
Nice smile
Floppy hair
Big strong arms

JacquettaW l've currently got a major crush on Dave Vanian. Like in the Eloise video. Glorious.

Camouflage trousers and a hi viz jacket. Swoon

A bloke that can play guitar. Ooh what they can do with their hands.

Scars, especially on the face. I love them on women too.