I lost my home a few months ago and had to move out, my mom insisted I moved in with her (eventhough I didn't want to I had to think of the kids!) I have a 4 year old and a 7 month old. Anyway, my Mom made my life hell being there! I was getting blamed for everything, being told I was lazy because I had no where to store our clothes so we were living out of suitcases. And we got into a massive argument! The argument wasn't really THAT bad. But she told me I had to leave. I had no where to go, I had to stay in a hotel, until I could find somewhere temporary. She never asked me whether I had anywhere to go, she never asked if the girls were okay. She hasn't even spoken to me besides telling me to get the rest of my things. Today my younger sister messaged to ask if my mom can have my girls over night this week, and to be honest, I don't want her to. She kicked me out with two young children and I had no where to go! AIBU if I don't allow her to see them for a few weeks? It's still raw, I'm still hurt/ angry. My children are just settling being at my partners parents and I think sending them to my Moms for the night is going to confuse them.