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to really love brown eyes?

126 replies

GingerDidItBackwards · 10/02/2019 20:20

I'd love brown eyes. I think they're beautiful, on men and women.

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VforVienetta · 11/02/2019 20:51

Ta dah! 👁👁

to really love brown eyes?
halfwitpicker · 11/02/2019 20:54

Love green eyes on blokes usually. However, there's a fit bloke at work who has the most melting brown eyes I've ever seen. Come hither? Yes please.

halfwitpicker · 11/02/2019 20:55

Gorgeous peepers, vienetta

IhateBoswell · 11/02/2019 21:31

Beautiful brown eyes Vienetta.

bananasandwicheseveryday · 11/02/2019 22:49

I'm not keen on dark brown eyes - I find them hard to 'read'. Dh has beautiful dark blue eyes and mine are hazel - a thin brown line around the pupil and the rest of the iris a dark green. One DC has eyes the same colour as me and one has inherited DH's blue eyes.

limitedperiodonly · 11/02/2019 23:04

LilaJude Mon swap it around to a thread about how gorgeous blue eyes are.

I have blue eyes but I'd be very uncomfortable with a thread celebrating that.

My eyes are blue. We shouldn't be judged on the colour of our eyes, or our skin.

Do you think it it's appropriate for someone to start a thread about how they think ivory-coloured skin is very attractive? I have that too

pineapplebryanbrown · 11/02/2019 23:11

No way, i only like brown eyes on dogs.

We all have green, i thought that was the most common.

MonsterTequila · 11/02/2019 23:58

Big preference for brown eyes 😍 I have 2 boys one with lovely bright blue eyes & 1 with a lovely brown shade. Both bright blonde hair.
I however, have this fucking weird mixture of blue, green & brown that looks completely different colours in different lights.

Bellasorellaa · 12/02/2019 04:40

Agree

Decormad38 · 12/02/2019 04:44

Myself and older daughter have hazel eyes. I’ve always thought they were a strange colour as in full light they go orange! My daughters go green! I always wanted blue eyes as a teen.

sagradafamiliar · 12/02/2019 09:27

Ah, both gorgeous^^ vienetta.

TheWernethWife · 12/02/2019 13:00

I have brown eyes, my daughter has brown eyes and so do my three grandchildren.

OneStepSideways · 12/02/2019 13:45

I love dark eyes, I find them far more attractive than blue. Most blue eyes here are that greyish mid blue that gets bloodshot easily, with pinkish lids.

Some parts of Scandinavia have beautiful blue eyes, very light piercing blue with tanned skin.

I also think green eyes look lovely with olive skin and dark hair.

Calloway · 12/02/2019 13:47

Do you think it it's appropriate for someone to start a thread about how they think ivory-coloured skin is very attractive?

Confused

Really wouldn't see the problem. As long as they're not denigrating other skin tones to make their point.

Calloway · 12/02/2019 13:49

With regards to eyes I can't say I've ever thought one shade is more attractive than another. I only really notice eyes if they have an arresting shape, something different to the norm e.g. bigger eyes than average or almond shaped eyes.

VforVienetta · 13/02/2019 00:03

Why on earth would you be uncomfortable with someone saying they think blue eyes are beautiful limited ?
We all have physical preferences of some kind or another, the OP loves brown eyes, and some love blue eyes. Others don’t give a shiny crap about eyes and it’s hands, build, skin tones, fitness, lips etc.

Here, have a pic of my nephew’s beautiful blues for balance. Smile

to really love brown eyes?
Seline · 13/02/2019 00:05

Limited

If you're correlating blue eyes to whiteness one of my biracial children has blue eyes. Nothing wrong with having a preference for eye colour.

YerAWizardHarry · 13/02/2019 00:08

DS and I both have very dark brown eyes which a lot of people compliment and I do like them but DP and DSS have the most stunning and unusual green eyes that i absolutely love.

We both have very strong genes- both our DS's are our "mini-me's" will be interesting to see whose genes win out if we have kids together Grin

HelenaDove · 13/02/2019 01:30

vampirethriller Sun 10-Feb-19 20:58:39

"My daughters eyes are nearly black."

As are mine. DM is Italian but her eyes are hazel. I think i get it from my gran (her mum who i only spent time with for two weeks when i was four.) the only photos of her are in black and white and her eyes do look very dark.

LilaJude · 13/02/2019 06:56

My eyes are blue. We shouldn't be judged on the colour of our eyes, or our skin.

Nobody is judging you as a person because they personally have a preference for or attraction to a particular eye colour. You couldn’t point to a single person on this thread who has said ‘I find brown eyes more attractive which means blue-eyes people are less valuable as humans’ because that’s not what anyone is saying.

Do you think it it's appropriate for someone to start a thread about how they think ivory-coloured skin is very attractive? I have that too

I don’t see the issue with saying ivory coloured skin is attractive, just like I have no problem with someone saying very dark skin is attractive. You seem to be hinting that saying ‘ivory skin is gorgeous’ is the same as saying ‘black people are uglier than white people’ but clearly those are not the same thing.

It is absolutely acceptable for people to have preferences about what they find attractive. It’s ok to love brown eyes or grey eyes or blonde hair or whatever. It doesn’t mean that you think people who don’t have those features aren’t attractive, and it doesn’t mean you only value or respect people who fit your preferences. You’re taking someone’s preference as a judgement on your value as a person, and that’s nuts!

We don’t need to pretend that we don’t have preferences for physical attributes - especially not to strangers on an anonymous forum.

Willyoujustbequiet · 13/02/2019 10:49

Not a fan myself. Blue or green light eyes are much nicer imo. I find them much more expressive and easier to read.

Mushroomsarehorrible · 13/02/2019 10:58

YABU !

Dark hair and blue / green eyes are the most attractive combo to me, especially if they are gorgeous deep blue, 'Irish' eyes.

Brown eyes are so common that I don't find anything about them particularly interesting, My DH has beautiful eyes, they are green with flecks of gold and he has lovely olive skin.

PhilidelphiaFreedom · 13/02/2019 10:59

My DD's big brown eyes 😍

to really love brown eyes?
Racecardriver · 13/02/2019 11:01

I prefer light eyes but I do remember reading somewhere thatnprople brown eyes are generally perceived as more trust worthy.

DeathBySnuSnu · 13/02/2019 11:07

I love brown eyes, they are so rich and warm and lovely! Smile
I have light blue eyes, I hate them. I've had people stop me in the street to say how nice my eyes are so I understand that some people must like them, but I genuinely don't get it. I just see washed out blobs of blahhhh. Sad