Saw something horrific on Twitter and I can't unsee it

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Last night I clicked on a link of a man taking a crap on a woman's face. I'm so horrified that I've been crying on and off since. I haven't been able to sleep either.

I'm seriously traumatised. I can't believe people do things like this and my heart hurts for the woman involved.
It made me think there are probably so many women trafficked or on drugs who agree /forced into such degradation . The world is a horrible place.

I'm not sure the point of this post but I'm just in pieces right now

Was it definitely non-consensual? I totally appreciate that it’s a horrifying prospect for you and I understand why you’re upset, but it is a practice which some people willingly engage in. It may comfort you if it was something the woman had willingly agreed to.

If that wasn’t the case and it was an abusive situation then I’m so sorry you saw something so traumatic. Time will help the feelings pass. You may also feel comforted by something like making a donation to an anti-trafficking charity (but only if you are able to do so without causing yourself financial harm or stress).

I think this post title should perhaps have a trigger warning - maybe something to ask MN about.

I agree with the pp, some people are into that.

It's been around a long time. There's sections of sex clubs just for it. Men and Women are into it. Some not to that extreme so they buy glass tables.

It's known as Skat.

Do you realise that degradation is a sexual fetish?

It's revolting. If people want to do that kind of thing in private and it's consensual, I suppose it's nobody else's business, but putting in on social media is way beyond the pale. Twitter should be removing things like that. Did you report it, OP?

I know how you feel OP. I have seen various awful things online over the years. It’s going to become more and more of a problem in the modern age and we still need to find a way to deal with it.

The man and his mistress (if it's the same video!) are local and it was completely consensual if that makes you feel any better? Lives are ruined round here though. His poor wife and kids

I’m sorry you saw it, it can be shocking to be caught off guard with extreme things.
As PP have said it might be consensual though, some people are into scat play which is quite an extreme fetish but some people are into it.

I’m a little bemused at your reaction, are you so dramatic about other stuff? I don’t particularly want to see that activity myself but, consent issues aside, it wouldn’t render me a jibbering wreck. Pull yourself together and move on.

It's scat play. It's not my bag but some people really get off on it. Try push it out of your mind. People consent to this stuff.

I’m a little bemused at your reaction, are you so dramatic about other stuff?

I dunno, everyone has that switch. When I read about munting I felt physically ill. Some things have that effect.

Ime (limited) experience the people who post horrible stuff are idiots with a severe lack of empathy. I remember hearing about a horrible use of kittens which I won't go into here and it makes me sad that my lovely young GDCs will no doubt be presented this sort of stuff by some lout, in the not too distant future. Some people have high levels of empathy- nice for you if you can just ignore it, not everybody can.

Instagram is also terrible for this sort of stuff. Full of porn which I think is crazy because he minimum age to open an account 13.

I wish porn wasn't allowed on Twitter. Yes I know some people are into it, but I don't want to accidentally come across it on mainstream social media.

DO NOT GOOGLE MUNTING 🤮🤢

I realise people have different tolerance levels but losing sleep and crying on and off is a disproportionate reaction, unless there are abuse triggers in which case all bets are off. OP hasn’t said that, so I genuinely think the best advice is to take a deep breath and get on with life.

Instagram is also terrible for this sort of stuff. Full of porn

Is it? Where did you find the porn on Instagram, eerrr asking for a friend

I am desperate to know about two cups and munting without offending my search engine history....

I've never seen porn on instagram and I've had an account for years.

I once searched for chocolate ice cream, scrolling through video links and there was one with two Japanese women eating chocolate ice cream. It wasn't chocolate ice cream. Over a decade ago and it's still burned into my brain.

You are so shocked you can't unsee it, but decided to share the information on Mumsnet?

Oops one girl two cups, two cups I’m guessing will take me to afternoon tea rather than hardcore girl on girl action

Thank God the internet was not around when I was growing up! When I was about 8, in the mid 70s, I was playing in the park with my sister and we found a discarded adult magazine. The images were probably very tame to what many children are exposed to nowadays online, but it had a terrible effect on me. I couldn't get the pictures out of my mind, and it really distressed me for a couple of weeks. I would be exactly the same as you, OP!

As an aside, I remember when I was about 15, being told that some people do wear stuff on glass tables, and I just didn't believe them!

"....must not Google munting.... must not Google hunting...."

FFS two girls one cup! Please tell em what it is now so I’ll shut up?