To give him another chance after he ghosted me?

[snowydaynewc]

August last year I met a guy and we went out on 3 dates.
He dropped me back home and rang me to say he had a great time and really liked me and then I never heard from him again.
He kept me on Facebook.
A week later I noticed he kept tagging a woman in things etc.
Last week he messaged me apologising and told me the night he left me a woman who he thought was out of his league messaged him on Facebook and he began a whilwind 3 months with her but she dumped him.
He apologised and said he thought we got on well and would I give him a chance?
Should I ?

Bloody hell! I’ve heard it all now, what a cheeky bastard!

Tell him your get back to him as someone out of your league is wanting a date with you & your going see how that goes first

Tell him your get back to him .. As someone out of your league is wanting a date with you & your going see how that goes first!

How outrageously conceited is he? !?!?

Or is he trying a bit of clumsy negging?

Block and ignore. It will infuriate him.

Nooope

I can’t believe you’ve asked this. You must have seriously low self esteem.

I am laughing in disbelief at someone who thinks that's a line to attract a mate (She was out of my league, but you're not!)

I'd reply:
"She and I play in the same league".

Christ, no.

Look up negging.

And no.

Don't even reply.

He doesn't deserve any acknowledgement from you.

One word reply.

‘LOL’

Not another word to him.

If in his mind she was out of his league then what does that make you? I wouldn’t be happy to be second best knowing he’d still be with her if she hasn’t dumped him. Please don’t give him a second chance!

Tell him to do one.

Hope you’re ok OP

This reflects on him not you. He doesn’t deserve a second chance because he’s shown he can’t be trusted and will ditch you when he feels there’s a better offer on the table. He didn’t even have the decency to let you know? You deserve much, much better.

I wouldn't even waste time replying to him. Just delete and block. He doesn't deserve a reply from you.

Not RTFT but negging my love, that's what he's playing at there. It's a dick move.
If you choose to reply, then the laughing, crying eyes emoji, and a 'hell no!' should suffice.

Definitely not. I would text back 'in your dreams' and block.

“You sound like a lovely person. I hope you find someone in your league soon.”

No. What a wanker.

He was making do with you until he got a better offer?

Raise your bar - be somebody's dream not somebody's comfy slipper.

Only if you're desperate

Everyone on here is mad! Of COURSE you should give him another chance! You text him back right now and arrange a date with him! Then don’t turn up...send him a message while he waits saying “sorry, a bloody hot bloke asked me out and I couldn’t say no. I knew you would understand though”

So this is that negging-thing I have read about on here? Never experienced it in real life and I really have trouble seeing how it would work.

The only answer:

Who dis?

You're joking right? What a CF!!

Yeah it’s negging. It’s an insult dressed in a compliment. It’s the beginnings of being grateful even for scraps.