Hi op, this is really interesting to me as it's been on my mind this last week, not that vaccines cause autism but the fact that there seem to be so many cases of it.
Let me explain my experience if I may.
I have 2 younger brothers. Between us we have 8 children.
I have 2, the oldest brother has 4 and the youngest brother has 2. 5 boys and 3 girls.
Of those 8 children, 4 are diagnosed with ASD ( 3 boys and 1 girl ) and of the remaining 4, 3 of them are likely to be on the spectrum ( 2 boys and 1 girl ) which to me suggests that there must be a genetic link somehow.
My ds is one of the boys who are diagnosed with ASD and my dd is one of the 3/4 who I suspect. Our family lives and breathes autism.
The children who have been diagnosed are in various places on the spectrum.
My ds is very high functioning but his 2 boy cousins are not.
Last week we had an appointment with ds's paediatrician at Alder Hey.
He is turning 16 soon and will likely be discharged from AH as it's a children's hospital and this doctor was new to us both.
After chatting for 10 minutes or so he asked me if I had a diagnosis myself! he had asked about dates re diagnosis and I could recall
lots of random dates and details. This alone doesn't suggest anything of course but when he started questioning myself and ds
further he suggested I speak to my GP.
I have long suspected that I too am on the spectrum and looking back from a young age it all makes sense. It just shocked me that this autism specialist clearly saw something in me so easily.
So I have never ever believed that vaccines cause autism and my ds was the only one in the family who was diagnosed for a long time, his cousins are much younger.
There are several older members of the family who would probably fit the criteria for a diagnosis too and it simply wasn't a thing back in the day.
I once remember one of ds's doctors saying ( paraphrasing here ) that if you look back
on your school days, there was probably
someone in every class who was that little
bit odd/quirky/insert other stereotype of autism and he's right in my experience.
I think it's crazy to even consider a child not having their vaccinations when you consider the alternatives. My ds is due to go to a very prestigious college this year after GCSE's, he is very bright, lives a full life and has a great future ahead of him.
Autism is not a death sentence.