I think people understand the concerns, it's the way some people express those concerns that causes the problems.
You are so right, women should meet up and discuss how to approach this.
Well, they would if they weren't beaten up, doxxed, barricaded by men in balaclavas, smoke bombed and venues weren't harassed by people phoning up, harassing them online and in person, threats made, bomb threats made etc etc.
What an utterly stupid thing to say.
This is as a direct result of WOMEN not being ALLOWED to meet up peacefully BY MEN.