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DH and his Brexit cupboard

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Anymom · 25/01/2019 22:45

Dh has converted two of our kitchen units into his Brexit cupboard! He has filled them up with all sorts of tinned delacacies including different beans, chilli and dogs (hot!)
He's also stockpiled toilet rolls, medicines, cleaning products etc. It's all stashed away in his new Brexit cupboard, that we have been warned not to touch! I darent tell him that the dc have already been in there hunting for chocolate. They were disappointed to find numerous bags of rice and pasta but alas no chocolate. Seems he has got his priorities mixed up! 😁
AIBU to think this is unnecessary and over the top? I need help to convince him as he talking about stockpiling and filling up the freezer and I'm dreading what concoctions I will find in there! All joking aside, it is just Dh panicking isn't it? We don't really need to be stockpiling food in one of the richest countries of the world, do we?

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bellinisurge · 27/01/2019 21:39

@surferjet
I prep for being snowed in ( happens regularly in winter in my northern suburb (
I prep for ill health - I have MS, random periods of disability go with that territory
I prep for power cuts - had plenty of them with various dubious road works cutting power cables
I prep for unemployment
I prep for water problems- just before my Mum died her whole town had contaminated water issues- I remember sitting in A&E with her for a non water related reason and they were handing out bottles
A new one for me is droughts- I live near where they had the moor fires last summer
And now Brexit; I prep for Brexit.

BobDobbs · 27/01/2019 21:44

I have seen the chaos and empty supermarket shelves that result from a few cm of snow around here. It would be daft not to buy in a few extra bits just in case. At worst, it will mean I have a very cheap month in April.

browneyes77 · 27/01/2019 21:45

UnnecessaryFennel

Oh you are that rude.

However, quite frankly I’m full of the flu right now and therefore couldn’t really give a shit what you think of me or for that matter whether you want to stockpile food for the apparent implosion of the UK. So, if it makes you happy, then you crack on Wink

prettybird · 27/01/2019 21:46

I live in inner city Glasgow. During the Beast from the East, there was no milk or bread in the shops, with barely any new stock in the shops for 3 days due to difficulty getting supplies to the shops. Schools were likewise shut for 3 days (and then it was the weekend anyway). We didn't even think of taking the car out for 5 days. Bought what we could locally but fortunately had a well stocked fridge and freezer, so we still ate well. Even made my own loaf of sourdough bread.

Fortunately, the power didn't go off, nor did our pipes freeze (that has happened in the past, when the rising main in the tenement flat in which we lived at the time froze Shock).

That was a "minor" weather problem Hmm. Imagine that happening alongside Operation Stack multiplied 10 times over?! Hmm

Thanks to threads like these, I have now added bog roll to my personal stockpiling Smile

borntobequiet · 27/01/2019 21:47

Surfer I was snowed in twice recently - 4 days before Xmas ‘17, 3 days after. I live 0.5 miles from a bus route and 4 from a town! But it was a good thing it was Xmas, because I’d stocked up. And I had to walk 40 min to the nearest village for milk, eventually.
So now I prep for everything. And I would if I lived in a town, because I know shelves were bare then. Take care.

PerverseConverse · 27/01/2019 21:49

Have aliens abducted the real surferjet ?

surferjet · 27/01/2019 21:51

bellinisurge

Very sorry to hear about all your struggles. Flowers

( I’m living in a bit of a bubble here in a large city )

PerverseConverse · 27/01/2019 21:53

@bellinisurge you are my prepper hero and think you live somewhere near me if it's the Saddleworth fire you're talking about?

Whatdoiwanttohear · 27/01/2019 22:13

Bloody hell Surfer had an epiphany?!

PositivelyPERF · 27/01/2019 22:22

I bought different flavoured syrups for coffee, today, so at least I have something tasty to drink, if the worst case come to the worst. 😁 Priorities.

OhYouBadBadKitten · 27/01/2019 22:24

we are going down in style at least.

PositivelyPERF · 27/01/2019 22:28

we are going down in style at least.

I’ll be having that after my wine (I have the best clients ever 😁) and home made bread and hummus.

HesterShaw21 · 27/01/2019 22:41

Novartis, GSK (and L'Oreal) are stockpiling too.

www.theguardian.com/business/2019/jan/25/drug-firm-novartis-fears-no-deal-brexit-will-harm-patients-stockpiling

"Novartis, the world’s fifth-biggest drugmaker by revenues, makes a large number of medicines ranging from treatments for cancer through to anti-inflammatories, including Voltarol, and the Ritalin drugs used to treat attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD). It is a major supplier to the NHS."

www.cnbc.com/2019/01/25/reuters-america-update-2-novartis-urges-britain-to-secure-drug-supplies-before-brexit.html

"Britain's biggest drugmaker GlaxoSmithKline has said it is increasing inventory, updating packaging, amending importation licences and securing warehousing to protect its supply chains before March 29."

Graphista · 27/01/2019 22:44

Yes bigkiteflying either people forget or aren't aware of how it was.

My parents were both from big poor families (Catholics) and they and their siblings born late 40's/50's. Both my grans were intelligent, practical women, one a professional cook and I had several discussions on how they managed (they didn't always and went without meals themselves and tried to avoid the kids doing without if at all possible but again didn't always manage it).

When I first went veggie I was very surprised my mum knew about how to do soya mince! Turns out she'd used it to bulk out meat mince when her and my dad were skint just after having my sister - I was sworn to secrecy even nearly 20 years later!

When I went through a very skint period myself as a Lp student, my mum was full of tips I wouldn't have thought of. (I still had times I went without, this was when if you had an ex that SHOULD have been paying maintenance and were on benefits the maintenance was deducted from your benefits but if they paid late or not at all you were stuffed! This was only early 2000's too so I suspect there's a fair few Lp on here who were in same position as me then that remember that)

"Graphista you forgot about it solving the obesity crisis" you're right I'm addressing it in a separate post where I'm adding to that list

Mommarodge see point 8 in list addition

"Palaver reminds me of a group of students who all laughingly proclaim a total lack of revision only to turn in 9 A* a few months later - you sure they aren't all secretly stockpiling and just not telling you?" So true! We're especially unlikely to be telling those loudly saying they're NOT stockpiling in case SHTF & they decide to raid our stocks!

My mum was telling me earlier her neighbours have turned half their garden over to growing veg in last year and they've been asking her for tips on preserving.

"Could we eat the groundhogs? I bet they taste a bit like haggis" oh don't! I forgot burns night & dd was not impressed!!

"Those scaremongering snowflake bastards in the Army with their piles of avocados and Prosecco" 😂😂 most squaddies would be perfectly capable of foraging & many make their own alcohol anyway - damn sight more potent than prosecco 😂

My family are army my dad ABOUT A YEAR AGO heard from old army buddies that they were starting to prep, in a conversation he said if it hits the news there's any preparations being made for civil unrest THEN it's bad. Because the army to a degree is ALWAYS prepared for unlikely events like droughts, power cuts etc when the govt starts actively telling them to then it's bad!

"It reminds me of all the panic during the preparation for the millennium" see point 4 in my list

Milktraylimebarrel - and those farmers that supply/run the farm shop have their own family to think of, you really think they won't prioritise them first? If anything they're likely to keep as much of their produce for themselves as possible! As for loyalty! So naive - they may need money for other items themselves which may well have risen in price so if they have 2 customers 1 "loyal" and one offering to pay 3/4/5 times more who do you think they'll sell to?!

"Why on earth would people stock up on loo rolls?" We don't have the wood or the infrastructure to make enough of our own. The majority of wood pulp used to make our loo roll comes from Sweden I believe - an eu country.

"I'm not picky about food, so I will probably just buy a large bag of strong flour, some yeast, and some vitamin tablets." hello impacted bowel!

"If food runs out we will just have to survive on home made bread and jam and whatever food is produced in the UK. We have a wealth of dairy farms so butter and milk should be OK. We have fruit and veg grown here, albeit a bit of a limited selection at certain times of year" see points 1,2,5 & 6 on my list

"Mind you, I'm overweight, so I always joke that I could probably survive about six months without eating anyway." See point 8 on list additions

"I'm worried about people whose short term medical requirements will cause them stress though. I think the government needs to be more reassuring to those with specific life-maintaining needs. If there's even a gnats whiskers chance of compromising someone's health they need to have plans." I'm asthmatic and on medication it's physically DANGEROUS to stop cold turkey, I have loved ones on life saving daily medication - we've been asking Drs and pharmacists for MONTHS what's going to happen nobody bloody knows!

"Also, why don't people try making their own pasta? Hate the stuff myself but went on a course recently which included making our own - easy!" It is - just one slight problem - we can't really grow durum wheat in this country which is needed to make the right flour. If you used other flour types to make pasta it'd just turn to mush!

"this is actually a complete disgrace that we are in this mess. No matter which way you did or will vote this is shameful." I have friends & family living in Europe, USA, Canada, aus, South Africa, Mexico... The U.K. Is being seen as a total laughing stock because of how our politicians are NOT handling this! The ones in Europe have had to spend time & sometimes considerable expense to ensure they can stay living with their European husbands and children and working there, and many of them weren't even allowed to bloody vote on the damn thing! Even the expats living outside the eu have obtained eu passports if they were eligible, mostly Irish, in order to continue to have easy travel for business reasons to eu countries. It's a fucking farce! Without a funny punchline!

"but the level of smug let-them-eat-cakery from some posters on this thread is really pretty repellent." This threads actually been pretty tame in that regard. I've seen far worse on other brexit threads & don't even get me started on benefits/food bank ones!!

"I don't think there will be any sort of lack of food - it'll just be more expensive, I reckon." Wow and here we have a "let them eat cake" post - millions are ALREADY struggling in food poverty in this country or just about avoiding it. Great if YOU can afford to pay £50 for a loaf of bread I can't!

"trees - which we do not grow in sufficient quantities" we don't generally grow the right trees in this country either.

"Graphista
you ever thought of going into politics?" In my sillier moments 😂.

In reality nobody would vote for a middle aged, mentally ill, socialist, feminist, bisexual, vegetarian teetotal, lapsed Catholic with some serious skeletons in the closet! (Nothing evil but would scare off most pensioners/conservative thinkers I know). 😂😂

"Well I just can't wait for all the threads where you clever people can congratulate yourselves on being so very right."

If WE'RE wrong it's harmed nobody, inc us and may result in a rise in donations to food banks in April. I bloody hope I'm wrong! It'll save me money & my anxiety will reduce shedloads!

If YOU'RE wrong there could be panic buying, starvation & issues with meds leading to serious illness (yet more pressure on the nhs) or even death, riots, looting, (and the police & armed forces have been cut to the bone so not much hope of their controlling it), we could be on the brink of a civil war!

Because unlike global economically unpredictable shortages (like the depression or oil issues) or shortages due to war with other countries, this is self inflicted, with almost half the country never bloody wanted it!!

Totopoly - genuinely interested how old you are. Are you old enough to have lived through Thatcherism?

"I don't actually think you're allowed to stockpile prescriptions?" Depends on the med. controlled drugs you can't but others you can. But the nhs also needs to be practical and avoid patients having stuff they then lose. Mine are all in a box anyway I'm on that bloody many!! My dads would fill a small suitcase even just 6 weeks supply!

"Well, those people who voted for brexit asked for all of this" many of us likely to be the worst affected DIDN'T!

Personally I'd be all for the govt reintroducing rationing and putting those who DID on half rations! But then I'd put certain politicians on 1/4 rations!

Re renew I'm wary of single policy parties and I'm DEFINITELY wary of one mainly peopled by ex tories!

The tories haven't changed just people forgot or chose not to acknowledge what they're really about and always were. They're the party of the wealthy and of large business owners, always have been always will be. They'll NEVER be interested in serving ordinary working class people let alone the very poor! Why do you think the Labour Party was created in the first place?!

Browneyes77 see points 1,2,5,6 & 9

We are only 60% "self sufficient" - and that's considered an optimistic assessment! If we take that in terms of how many can be fed that leaves nearly 27 MILLION people not getting fed!

"If I were going to stock pile anything it would be Wine. But as I like Californian wine, I shouldn't have any issues there" as I posted upthread, wine from outside the Eu tends to initially be shipped to the eu to larger countries to be bottled and then redistributed to the smaller countries after that.

"If there are shortages of certain foods we will just eat other ones." There isn't enough "other ones" to go around.

"Cadbury’s is in the UK
Where in the UK does chocolate grow" or sugar for that matter.

"Just how many products that people are stockpiling actually come in from Europe? There is a whole other world out there you know peeps!" Yes and currently food etc from non-eu countries come to us...via the eu & via trade agreements we have with them AS EU MEMBERS! Geez even just look at a map! We trade with Europe cos they're the nearest! The further a product has to travel the more it costs for freight costs alone!

The govt haven't even bothered trying to seriously set up trade deals with non eu countries!

"Do you live in the middle of nowhere? ( no offence ) I’m just surprised that anyone in the UK is constantly preparing for weeks of no food?"

Plenty of parts of the U.K. ARE Indeed VERY rural and subject to difficulties getting supplies in. I'm just across the water from certain scots islands, during NORMAL conditions - no weather issues etc - many of the islanders do a monthly trip to my nearest town by boat to stock up at the supermarket. They stock up 2-3 months worth every oct/November in case they can't get across in rough seas. We were completely snowed in for 4 days last year, and I'm supposedly on a main road! Not even snow ploughs could get through. My mum lives on top of a hill and is snowed in most winters. Much of the highlands & islands, rural Wales, rural Cornwall, Yorkshire moors areas etc are similar.

"We had lorries stuck on motorways" a motorway near me emergency services including mountain rescue had to attend to a pregnant lady that got stuck (frankly why SHE was the one out driving to the shop instead of her man is a whole relationships board thread!) and she started getting concerned she'd gone into labour.

I wouldn't necessarily have called myself a prepper but due to never being well off I've always bought items I know I'll use in bulk if I can when they're on offer, silversurfer I think I'm right in thinking you're older than me? I'm 46. And even I remember 70's flour & sugar shortages, regular power cuts (so I always have candles & matches/lighters in)

I was with my ex through the millennium and he's a true city boy. He scoffed at my prepping then "just in case" until his boss (he was army at the time and his boss had experience of living in places where food, even clean water could often be scarce, he was also old enough to remember post WWII rationing) said he should be glad he's married to someone so sensible! We were in a fairly rural location at the time where power cuts were common. Boss said to him wherever he & his family were they always had emergency supplies - mainly things like bottled water, candles, matches, camping stove, batteries, a good first aid kit... But also items particular to wherever they were at the time. He told ex they'd only needed to use it occasionally but he'd rather have it & not need it than need it & not have it. Ex changed tune & was then glad to hump crates of water into spare room!

My family are scots and I have heard many anecdotes about when they've been cut off by snow, floods, had power cuts due yo location - where my mum is still can't get ch 5 or decent internet! Even her landline goes down fairly regularly and mobile coverage is shite!

Graphista · 27/01/2019 22:44

New additions to the FAQ's

8 well we all need to lose weight anyway we'll just diet

You still need nutrition for basic bodily functions & health. Obesity is more complex than simply "eat less", also children, the elderly and sick need calories and nutrition to grow and to stay healthy. And not everyone's fat! My dd is over 6' and barely more than a size 8 due to her disability she has a high metabolism. She needs the calories AND she needs to consume a certain amount of fat to protect her joints. Diabetics need a stable diet to manage their condition as do people with a variety of other conditions, some people need to take medication with certain types of foods, there's those with allergies to consider etc

Also hungry people get pissed off! Before they get to a point where they're too weak to fight they'll get angry! That's what will likely lead to the civil unrest. That and people fearful for loved ones who are diabetics etc.

9 grow stuff in the garden, we can grow stuff in this country too

March/April is a low harvest time. Google the "hungry gap" even if you were to plant stuff now it won't be ready for ages and even that only works

if you know what you're doing
can invest in the raw materials necessary
HAVE a garden or somewhere to grow stuff
The weather does what it's supposed to - no unusually warm or cold spells, or too much/too little rain!

"This is the anti-panic thread. If it had a theme tune it would be that chilled out music that used to accompany those Hamlet cigar ads." Haha love this idea! Any graphic designer mners who could create a wee video using this music and our FAQ's/brexit bingo?

TheElementsSong · 27/01/2019 22:46

I've always lived in cities, but even then:

I've experienced power cuts in London, although never more than a couple of hours. Even so, it was reassuring to know we had matches and candles in the house.

Also have experienced interruptions to water supply due to burst mains, sort of thing.

And last year when the Beast from the East hit, the weird thing was that the several shops within walking distance didn't run out of food during the worst weather - I guess they'd got a bit extra in? Certainly it wasn't like people in the local area panic-bought everything. But in the few days after the worst had abated was when the shelves finally went bare - they couldn't restock as the hiccups in the supply chain fed through, I think.

Plus: Sorry for lowering the tone with the norovirus story earlier, but honest-to-goodness, that's literally the kind of shit that can happen to people Grin, and then you don't feel so dumb about your stash of loo roll. OTOH, I suppose someone could argue that we didn't need to eat anything, so nerr nerr nerrrr about stockpiling food...

prettybird · 27/01/2019 23:00

Graphista - get thee across to the current Westministenders thread: early on in the thread I posted a Brexit Burns poem that dh composed/adapted for our Burns Supper. He does a topical one every year and this year he used Brexit as the primary inspiration. Grin

I particularly liked this verse, which he had to work hard on to get the appropriate rhyme to "Nothing's CHANGED!" Wink

Wee sleekit, cow’rin tim’rous beastie
O what a panic’s in May’s breastie
If she would start awa sae hasty
Wi bickerin’ brattle so deranged
With chorus all of
Nothing’s Changed.

PerverseConverse · 27/01/2019 23:00

We grow sugar beet in the UK. Norfolk I believe.

AutumnCrow · 27/01/2019 23:02

Excellent Brexit Burns verses.

noodlenosefraggle · 27/01/2019 23:10

Yes you can smell the sugar beet factory down the A11. Think it's Tate & Lyle. I'm wondering whether I should have a permanent stash somewhere of essentials. I don't know what though. Maybe candles?

PoutySprout · 27/01/2019 23:11

It’s silver spoon that use sugar beet. Tate and lyle are pro Brexit and use imported sugar cane.

Whatdoiwanttohear · 27/01/2019 23:14

Omg prettybird burns poem is excellent, I'm sitting in bed reciting it out loud in best Scots accent!

Epanoui · 27/01/2019 23:15

Applause for @Graphista. That was a tour de force!

Yes, we grow some sugar beet in this country. Enough to supply all our sugar requirements? I'm betting no.

noodlenosefraggle · 27/01/2019 23:18

I knew I'd get the wrong one Grin
No, I bet they couldn't up their production that much or grow enough sugar beet, especially with all the home made bread/cake/jam making that will be going on!

PerverseConverse · 27/01/2019 23:19

www.silverspoon.co.uk/where-our-sugar-is-grown

Within 28 miles of the Bury St Edmunds Silver Spoon factory.

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