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To wonder how much Mrs Hinch spends in the average day?

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grinchypants · 23/01/2019 22:24

I'm on maternity leave now and have no life so I'm noticing all kinds of busybody things like the next door neighbours leaving their front door wide open all night and shit like that.

I've seen some of Mrs hinch on insta today.
Cleaning and motivational yada yadas alright if you don't mind the amount of chemicals & fumes but by god is most of it not just daily updates of "bought this" "swipe up for the link to these I bought"

I'm not cheap by any means but who buys so much crap each day, like her house isn't that big, and I'm sat wondering what she's done with all of last weeks storage boxes and shite because I have no life

Does she donate it all? Is it all gifted? Nobody can keep up with that much shopping for one household.

I'm on my own here aren't I? Grin

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Boom76 · 24/01/2019 07:33

ladyoftheloch

Completely agree. I’m not a fan of hers but it’s getting tedious now

Workfear · 24/01/2019 07:34

No no, that woman who 'sparks joy' on Netflix has a Monica closet. Grin Sorry can't remember her name.

MsSquiz · 24/01/2019 07:40

When she posts links of things from eBay, it's not things she has just bought but things she has bought previously.

I have seen her post a photo of her "previously bought" items page on eBay to prove that she has bought them. And she also checks that the prices are the same as she paid for them

I do wish the bashing would stop - it's her money, her life, just leave the woman be!

tryinganewname · 24/01/2019 07:42

Jesus, do people have nothing better to do than slag other women off?!

Don't bloody watch if it annoys you.

And those saying the dogs nose is going to be pushed out.. I have 2 dogs and neither has been 'pushed out when baby arrived' it's called being a decent, caring dog owner.

tinatsarina · 24/01/2019 07:52

She isn't going to single handedly destroy the environment with some zoflora and CIF. Let's be real here. The woman likes to clean. People who are concerned about a newborn and chemicals are ott. Most other people use cleaning products in their houses to, more so if they have a newborn as they are probably worried about them catching something because they're so new to the world. Are we going to slate everyone who does that?

Fluffycloudland77 · 24/01/2019 08:00

She’s using a lot of brands still tested on animals so it’s a no from me.

Namedrama · 24/01/2019 08:04

Tinatsarina - it’s not a matter of her doing anything “single handedly”. She is promoting her cleaning methods to over 1.5 million followers. It’s her business. Her impact on the earth will go way beyond anything she could single handedly do.

AdiosMissGunther · 24/01/2019 08:06

People who say they are getting so bored of watching her....why not just unfollow? Or are you hatewatching?

Does my bum look forty gets gifted a hell of a lot of stuff and posts affiliate links all the time. She gets much less hate on here though

Namedrama · 24/01/2019 08:06

There is also a very legitimate concern about over cleaning with small children. Recent studies suggest if a child’s immune system isn’t stimulated in its first year it raises the chances of leukaemia.

www.telegraph.co.uk/science/2018/05/21/ultra-clean-homes-could-trigger-childhood-leukaemia-major-review/

NameChanger22 · 24/01/2019 08:08

I just looked her up as I'd never heard of her before. Her style is very boring and run of the mill. Her house looks like a million other houses. How did she get 1.6 million followers? Did she buy them all?

ericthedog · 24/01/2019 08:13

I use products in my home that I have carefully sourced because of allergies. So I would never buy the stuff she uses but I couldn't give a shit if she wants to destroy the air she breathes in her home.

However I find her overuse of the word 'mate', 'hinch' and 'hinching' really annoying so I don't follow her.

grinchypants · 24/01/2019 10:25

@Ladyoftheloch
*There are endless posts of dressed up faux concern about the environment, her unborn baby, her dog, and her financial situation from people who I am absolutely confident aren't protesting weekly at airports about environmental damage, or even checking to make sure that low cost T-shirt they bought wasn't made by some poor girl working in indentured servitude in a factory in Calcutta that's dumping tonnes of toxic chemicals into rivers on a daily basis.

The reality is your noses are out of joint because you don't see why Mrs Hinch should be so famous and successful for doing something post people can apparently do. And that resentment is dressed up as concern trolling, mum shaming and armchair environmental activism.
*
Hmm** Thats quite a leap isn't it. At no point have I said I didn't like Mrs Hinch or that I resent her in any way. Nor am I out to troll her. Her role as an influencer is one that comes with a degree of responsibility though hence the stories the last few days of celebs in these roles needing to be more transparent with what they are advertising and what they are not.

The thing I was thinking about out of mat leave boredom, and having too much time on my hands, not resentment is that it's quite a lot of stuff to be "hauling" on a daily basis, and that by asking people to follow her on social media, take her cleaning tips and join in hinching their homes, people might also feel that they need to follow her shopping habits too (follow the link to buy this, see what I got on my haul today ect) which is fine, but it might leave those on lower incomes wondering how they can keep up if they are sucked in by it.
I did also say I wondered where the same stuff she had bragged about buying last week and the week before went, and I don't think I need to be stood outside an airport to think that influencers need to have social responsibility too and move with the times. The efforts huge communities and companies are going to at the moment to reduce single use plastic and you have that many followers, it's a huge influence to have and use in a positive or a negative way and you have to accept that some people will have these kinds of questions. That's not mum shaming, that's seeing what a powerful effect somebody can have, maybe she could encourage people to reuse or promote products that are more socially responsible. That doesn't mean anybody who cares for the environment resents her for having loads of followers for cleaning.

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grinchypants · 24/01/2019 10:26

@Namedrama She’s is promoting a style of living that will hasten the destruction of the planet. She is doing quite a bit of harm in the pursuit of money.

This.

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grinchypants · 24/01/2019 10:30

@MsSquiz if you are popular in the public eye people are bound to discuss you or the choices you make. It doesn't mean people are out to bash her.
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Beerflavourednipples · 24/01/2019 10:31

I was just thinking the same the other day when she was showing lots of baby tat on her stories. Her house is so immaculate and minimalist, and yet she has all this uneccessary stuff, where is it all being hidden? I have quite a big house (not so slealth boast there, but I do!) and hate buying tat, and yet I still feel like there is crap everywhere!

I don't mind her as a person though, she seems nice.

Madmarchpear · 24/01/2019 10:37

I'd never heard of her either. Just looked on Instagram and oh my that is a lot of grey and crushed velvetGlitterball So she's famous for keeping her house clean? What a time to be alive.

grinchypants · 24/01/2019 10:41

Also wondering where the stuff she "hauls" ends up isn't really any different in my eyes to wondering if mr bloom has a wife or if mr tumble ever gets a bit fed up.
They are public people, people will discuss them, people will take the piss sometimes, it does not equal resentment.
Have you guys that are so fed up of people discussing her or bashing her considered that if she was promoting her lifestyle in a more responsible way, people would discuss her just as much, but in a much more positive way.

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AwdBovril · 24/01/2019 10:43

I should think her carbon footprint is something to behold.

Ladyoftheloch · 24/01/2019 10:43

The environmental trolling is a red herring - it’s the socially acceptable way of dressing up dislike for Mrs Hinch. If you actually admit that you think she’s common, talentless, stupid, mouthy etc then your comment will rightly be deleted (as the poster’s above was).

But if you say ‘it’s not her, it’s the chemicals’ you look like you’re just taking a reasonable environmental stance. You can feel righteous, instead of mean.

The 4 most important things a human can do to reduce their environmental impact are:

  1. Eating a plant based diet
  2. Having only one child
  3. Avoiding air travel
  4. Doing without a car

How many of you are sticking to these principles? And if you aren’t, then how do you justify your hypocrisy in criticising others?

I’m not suggesting Mrs Hinch is an environmental advocate. She clearly doesn’t have environmental concerns first and foremost in her mind. But I do very firmly believe that the vast majority of people criticising her on environmental grounds have no right to do so, and are doing as much damage themselves in the course of their own lives.

It’s easier to sit on the internet and criticise someone for using bleach than it is to give up meat, or take the train instead of the car, isn’t it? So you can virtue signal and feel good about yourself by criticising someone else, but it’s not actually changing anything.

You don’t have to like Mrs Hinch. I’m not especially interested in her videos, so I don’t follow her. But it is rank hypocrisy to criticise her for environmental damage, for being a bad mother, or for spending too much simply because you don’t want to admit that she isn’t the type of person you think should be famous and popular.

I’m not directing this at you particularly, OP. I think you make some reasonable points about the ethics of influencers. But as a general point, MN is an absolute hotbed of this type of virtue signalling, and the self-righteous, pat each other on the back attitude of posters who think criticising someone else makes them a better person without them ever having to examine or modify their own behaviour is deeply unpleasant.

DonDrapersOldFashioned · 24/01/2019 10:46

Most of it’ll be free/gifted/sponsored content, or else it’s cheapy plastic stuff from b&m or home bargains. She doesn’t seem to spend big from the little I’ve seen.

AwdBovril · 24/01/2019 11:02

LadyoftheLoch - er, yes, I do most of the time, actually. We don't have a car, don't travel abroad (our passports have actually expired - the last time we used them was shortly after they were issued), we have 1 child. I do eat meat, but only occasionally, I was vegetarian for many years but I just have too many food intolerances now for it to be a viable choice any more, on our budget. I have to buy what I can get cheap, considering there is a fussy DH & DD to feed as well as myself. We recycle, despite having to carry some of it on foot, despite both having mobility issues, and have done since long before there were kerbside collections. We have used our own shopping bags instead of supermarket bags, again, since long before the 5p tax on them, even before some shops started incentivising reusables by offering points on loyalty cards.

Do you?

Madmarchpear · 24/01/2019 11:05

After further Google stalking I've decided her old house and image was nicer. Such a shame women feel pressure to Towie-fy when in the media.

DonDrapersOldFashioned · 24/01/2019 11:10

She looked lovely before all the filters, fillers and fakery.

Floweringalpines · 24/01/2019 11:12

Wtf is Mrs Hinch?

DonDrapersOldFashioned · 24/01/2019 11:13

mad, to be honest though, I don’t think she was in the media when she ‘transformed’. It’s just a look that’s popular in Essex (where she lives) and in women of her age group, so she’s got sucked in. Plus, she works in the beauty industry (hairdresser), so her image is likely to be important to her.