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Duke of Edinburgh’s Road Accident

999 replies

SirGawain · 17/01/2019 18:08

AIBU to ask why on earth is the Duke of Edinburgh driving at the age of 97.

OP posts:
Wordthe · 21/01/2019 10:36

So many cap doffers on this thread

thenightsky · 21/01/2019 10:44

I hope Phil sends her a nice new Kia. It would be better than wrangling via insurance companies and he would come out of it looking like a nicer person.

BishBoshBashBop · 21/01/2019 10:46

So many cap doffers on this thread

I will translate. You mean posters on this thread don't agree with you.

How dare they hey

Bluelady · 21/01/2019 10:48

Someone who drove past the accident scene minutes after it happened has posted on this or the other thread. She is clear the sun was shining and it was low in the sky. She, too, was dazzled. This woman would be in just as much pain if she'd been involved in an accident with me but nobody would give a shit. And she wouldn't expect a bunch of flowers.

NaturalBornWoman · 21/01/2019 10:50

So many cap doffers on this thread

I'm not sure that's necessarily the case. Certainly my objection is to the automatic assumption that age is the cause, with no evidence to support that. This is a common type of accident, and the stretch of road involved here is apparently a black spot. Also as others have said, if we assume that someone of a certain age must have reaction times incompatible with safe driving, how do we deal with other causes of slower reaction times, such as chronic sleep deprivation in young parents, or maybe morbid obesity? There would be outrage on here. Someone I worked with was involved in an accident with an elderly man, who died as a result. The younger and purportedly fit man who caused the crash due to sleep deprivation is in prison. It's wrong to make sweeping judgements, and this site tolerates horrible ageism.

Wordthe · 21/01/2019 10:51

cap doffer =person who instinctively defers to authority figures

TaMereAPoilDevantPrisu · 21/01/2019 10:52

so bluelady you know person A you don't know is telling the truth but person B you also don't know is definitely not telling the truth? How have you decided which way round it is?

BishBoshBashBop · 21/01/2019 10:56

cap doffer =person who instinctively defers to authority figures

Say it as many times as you like. Doesn't make it true. Hmm

Bluelady · 21/01/2019 11:01

I know what the weather was like where I was that afternoon. That has been verified by someone with nothing to gain by lying. It is in conflict with what has been said by someone who hopes to gain by lying. It's interesting that nothing has been heard from the person who was actually driving the other car. I suspect her insurance company has advised her to keep quiet.

BrightStarrySky · 21/01/2019 11:01

‘Ohdeargodlookat’

Yes I do have authority to comment on why people are told not to apologise after an accident in some cases. It relates to admitting liability. It’s legal and morally fine to say sorry if you do admit liability and where you know you’re wrong. In fact it is a good thing to do if there is no issue you may be wrong.

To the pp who asked whether I’m qualified to say a 97 year old would not have safe reaction times, you’re right I don’t have medical evidence to support that. I say that based on my personal life experience having never met a person over the age of 90 who I believe would be a safe driver (due to slow reaction times which comes with age). I’m still comfortable with saying that and it seems like common sense to me.

BertrandRussell · 21/01/2019 11:07

It would be fun to start a thread about a 97 year old mother in law who caused an accident but refused to stop driving........Grin

Bluelady · 21/01/2019 11:09

It would be carnage!

badlydrawnperson · 21/01/2019 11:31

The fact that wealthy people "can" self-insure does not, however, mean that the Royal Family do.

Correct - I mention it as a possibility. We are all speculating about almost everything.

mydogisthebest · 21/01/2019 11:33

Whatever happened I am already sick of seeing her oh so sad face in the Mail.

badlydrawnperson · 21/01/2019 11:33

I say that based on my personal life experience having never met a person over the age of 90 who I believe would be a safe driver
How many have you met?

badlydrawnperson · 21/01/2019 11:34

So many cap doffers on this thread
Bollocks.

Wordthe · 21/01/2019 11:41

It's so very obvious who the cap doffers are

Bluelady · 21/01/2019 11:44

Yes @Wordthe, they're the people who don't agree with you.

Anapurna · 21/01/2019 12:23

I must admit that the •sad• pictures in the red tops of the woman who was injured in the crash are swiftly removing any sympathy I might have felt for her. I hate this sort of blatant opportunism. It is so grabby and undignified.

Anapurna · 21/01/2019 12:24

Is she really intending to sue Prince Philip?

OhDearGodLookAtThisMess · 21/01/2019 12:45

I don't think it's 'cap-doffing' to point out ageism or speculation.

None of us knows exactly what happened here, or what the Duke's exact state of health is/was.
Or am I doffing my cap to refer to him as the Duke? Hmm

BertrandRussell · 21/01/2019 12:52

“Is she really intending to sue Prince Philip?”

Any reason why she shouldn’t?

Parker231 · 21/01/2019 12:55

If he was at fault I would expect compensation - no different from anyone who causes an accident.

Wordthe · 21/01/2019 12:59

He's just an arrogant git, everyone knows that

Bluelady · 21/01/2019 13:03

He can be as arrogant and/or racist as it's possible to be. Neither has any relevance to this.

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