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Duke of Edinburgh’s Road Accident

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SirGawain · 17/01/2019 18:08

AIBU to ask why on earth is the Duke of Edinburgh driving at the age of 97.

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diddl · 20/01/2019 20:55

I agree that if he asked after the others then that's probably as much as can be expected.

I'm assuming that apologising would be looked on as an admission of guilt?

That said, if someone apologised & was shown not to be a fault, surely it would just be something a shocked person said?

I mean it's a bit different to "I didn't see them" or "I was on my phone"...

NicolaStart · 20/01/2019 21:06

In the accident I was in that wrote off my car, on the motorway, everyone from all 3 vehicles was first of all concerned to check that everyone was ok. Then called the Motorway Highway people, then, with great calm and civility exchanged names and insurance details.

Everyone was glad it wasn’t worse, was happy to be unhurt and mindful
Of what could have been. It was clearly one person’s fault, but that person was visibly shaken and shocked. Everyone behaved, and it helped everyone.

NicolaStart · 20/01/2019 21:08

Oh, and the police weren’t involved at all. The HigheY people got everyone into a slip road, made sure everyone had onward journey on their insurance and it was on its way, and that was it. From then on only the insurance.

Wordthe · 20/01/2019 21:17

Well that's it I've got nothing left now
Driving is so Central to the identity of some people that they cling onto it at all costs
What, give up driving??
over my dead body

StoneofDestiny · 20/01/2019 21:35

Driving is so Central to the identity of some people that they cling onto it at all costs
What, give up driving??
over my dead body

Usually it's some innocent persons dead body unfortunately

Wordthe · 20/01/2019 21:45

Yes I know
they cling onto driving as if driving is life itself

Smotheroffive · 20/01/2019 21:45

Usually,!!??? Is that what happens is it, that usually the way everyone stops driving at age x, is when they kill someone. Anymore real life truth gems like that? Standards of reality being maintained on this thread I see.

StoneofDestiny · 20/01/2019 22:07

I'm more worried about 90+ drivers than 'standards' on mumsnet!

Anonalongadingdong123 · 20/01/2019 22:15

"The Queen and the Duke of Edinburgh would like to be remembered to you." what does that mean?

Smotheroffive · 20/01/2019 22:56

But that doesn't make it OK to spout utter bollox on MN, its no defence for that, and its not MN standards, its just making shit up is what it is!!

be remembered to you utter meaningless and inappropriate diatribe is what that is...scared to say sorry, in case seen as admitting liability, despite admitting it at the scene. Lawyers advice I would imagine.

Silkie2 · 20/01/2019 22:58

Giving up driving is harder when you're old because you aren't fit enough to walk distances to bus stops or hop on a bike. You are verging on housebound.

Smotheroffive · 20/01/2019 23:06

Why its also from Queenie, is a mystery, as this is about dofE.

DontCallMeCharlotte · 20/01/2019 23:30

Giving up driving is harder when you're old because you aren't fit enough to walk distances to bus stops or hop on a bike. You are verging on housebound.

Hardly the case for the DofE is it?

Anyway, the tosser who wrote my car off on the motorway didn't even stop, let alone exchange pleasantries (or insurance details).

Charlie97 · 21/01/2019 06:08

Giving up driving is harder when you're old because you aren't fit enough to walk distances to bus stops or hop on a bike. You are verging on housebound.

Not for HRH though?

Ladymargarethall · 21/01/2019 06:15

Actually, after my DF have up driving he continued to ride his electric bike for a while because it was easier than walking.

AlexaAmbidextra · 21/01/2019 06:41

Well that's it I've got nothing left now

Wordthe. Because at 92 he was able to do less and less and it meant that he was pretty much housebound unless I took him out. As I said, I was extremely glad he was no longer driving but it didn’t stop me empathising with an old man who felt more and more worthless.

AlexaAmbidextra · 21/01/2019 06:44

they cling onto driving as if driving is life itself

Well perhaps that’s what it feels like when you are fast losing any independence you may have had. I’m not saying this is a reason to keep driving at all costs but can understand how it may feel.

StoneofDestiny · 21/01/2019 06:46

Giving up driving is harder when you're old because you aren't fit enough to walk distances to bus stops or hop on a bike. You are verging on housebound

Many old people do not drive, have never driven or never even owned a car.

Mortgages · 21/01/2019 06:47

He walked away because he was driving a Range Rover

Ladymargarethall · 21/01/2019 06:55

I think we should be grateful (as the press undoubtedly are) because it has taken our minds off Brexit.

Ollivander84 · 21/01/2019 06:55

@Mortgages which wasn't a Range Rover. It was a freelander... as said up thread

countrygirl99 · 21/01/2019 07:06

FGS it doesn't matter how hard it is to roll a range rover or whether they are built like tanks as he WASN'T DRIVING A RANGE ROVER (sorry to shout, but it needed doing).

CherryPavlova · 21/01/2019 07:33

Whilst not disputing many 97 year olds are not fit for driving, I do think it’s very wrong to assume the blame sits firmly with him. The other car must have been going at significant speed to roll the car across the road. Perhaps they were driving at excessive speed?
The woman on television with the broken wrists is clearly after compensation in large amounts and an absolute gift to the gutter press.

StoneofDestiny · 21/01/2019 07:50

The woman on television with the broken wrists is clearly after compensation in large amounts and an absolute gift to the gutter press
Yes, sad woman is a royalist so don’t expect much.

StoneofDestiny · 21/01/2019 07:57

He is a serious threat on the road - arrogantly breaking the law on more than one occasion regarding the wearing of seatbelts - he should be prosecuted for that alone - the warning was given, the evidence is there. Anybody else would have been.