Not sure if IABU or not. I'm cheesed off though. DD is in reception and didn't make it to the toilet in time and did a poo in her knickers. AIBU to think that school could have changed a random accident, rather than leavingDD sitting in it for over an hour whilst I traveled home from work? Cheesed off have to take half a days leave now too lost for commuting back to work! I always leave a spare uniform in her bag. It must have taken them longer to come and phone me than to change her. It was pretty "contained" (sorry if tmi!)