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Mumsymum90 · 01/01/2019 15:38

Basically, 6 years ago I found out was pregnant with my son I was seeing someone and I had an ex as well. I was unsure on who the father was so I ghosted him as I was scared and embarrassed. I had the dna test done and the other guy come back as wasn’t the father I was going through a lot of stresses at the time so I left it.

Until, this year I suddenly felt I had to be honest and tell him things got complicated as we still had feelings for one another took 6 months after reconnecting I told him and he blocked me with no answer so all contact was lost I didn’t want anything from him just for him to know..

Rewind to Friday I bumped into a friend who I didn’t realise was with his brother and his bros gf. I didn’t think it was wise to start a conversation so ignored them until my friend tried to introduce us all and his gf said. “ I don’t care what you have to say to us. You’re not welcome over here I suggest you fuck off!”

I moved along as I wasn’t up for drama but his bro looked so uneasy and like he had something to say but couldn’t because she had him on a lead pretty much.

I left in the end as I wasn’t there for drama but have I done the right thing? Could I of said more? I understand his family are more than angry with me and so is he hence why he blocked me from every root possible when I told him.

Also, a part of me thinks he may of already known?

Just feel I need some enlightenment and happy new year!! Xxxxxx

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Jellybabie3 · 01/01/2019 19:20

I honestly don't have the strength to unpick this.

whatsthepointthen · 01/01/2019 19:22

I'm assuming he doesn't want to pay cm.

ORRRRR he wasnt told he was a father so missed SIX years of his childs life and is understandably angry!!

ElspethFlashman · 01/01/2019 19:31

He's also not on the birth cert and has no DNA test proving it. There's only a test proving some other bloke isn't the Dad.

So I doubt he'd have to pay anything based on a Jeremy Kyle style text message.

FenellasRedVelvetDress · 01/01/2019 19:38

For somebody who does not want drama the OP seems happy with all of the drama and confusion here by not coming back to explain!
Do you think we might need to call Jeremy Kyle to explain this??

Ohhhhhh.......imagine if Jeremy Kyle was on mumsnet? ,!!Can you imagine what he would say!!

MiddleClassProblem · 01/01/2019 19:47

I'm assuming he doesn't want to pay cm.

I can’t help but laugh that that’s all someone can take from this. Nevermind the woman who ghosted him for over half a decade, then hooked up with him for 6 months before texting him that he was the dad of her 6 year old...

MiddleClassProblem · 01/01/2019 19:48

I also have the image of throughout all their rekindled bonking he had his fingers in his ears and was going “laaalaaalaaaa” every time they met in person.

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