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What irrationally annoys you that has no effect on you whatsoever

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Squatternutbosh123 · 31/12/2018 12:03

I'm sitting reading a book in the front room watching the neighbour close just 1 of his double gates after driving off his drive. When he comes in layer he'll then have to stop the car, get out, open gate etc. He can be out anything from 5 minutes to all day but does this every time.

Other neighbour leaves his bins at the front of the house rather than putting them down the side of the house. Same neighbour has 4 people who drive living in the house, yet mum always comes and goes in taxis, sometimes with her grandkids, shopping etc. when they are home.

My mum drives her car right up to her back gate then has to walk around the car to go through gate. She then moans that she gets wet doing this when it's raining, but then won't leave a gap at the front of the car!

None of these things affect me so whyyyyyyyyy do they annoy me so much.

I should get a life

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Juells · 03/01/2019 09:35

Belindabauer
Men who say we are pregnant.

I judge women who say it even more harshly. They're going through the morning sickness, the sore boobs, the kicks to the bladder, the discomfort, but...mustn't make the man feel excluded.

This is why we can't have nice things.

Jamiefraserskilt · 03/01/2019 09:47

Noisy eaters
Haitch not aitch
Putting like at the start of every like sentence
Uptoning every sentence. Are you asking a question?
Hashtags
Forced accents do not sound cool or street bro.
Parking over fire hydrants
Using text speak when having an actual face to face conversation
Unnecessarily thick make up
Inconsiderate parking especially diagonal parking that makes bus or fire engine passing impossible

TitchyP · 03/01/2019 10:05

Just about everything mentioned on this thread annoys me.

#butpeoplewhodowholesentencehashtagsshouldbeshot

FlumpyMummy · 03/01/2019 10:24

People who take an age to turn off a main road when indicating right or left 🤬

Thesnobbymiddleclassone · 03/01/2019 10:57

Baby talk!

I hate it full stop and have never allowed my daughter to be spoken to in that way. My family would get really annoyed with me correcting them e.g. "No, it's a horse, not a horsey".

Also agree with the tailors stitch. It's the same as leaving the sticker on the bottom of your shoe.

MsTSwift · 03/01/2019 16:14

My adult bil lapses into baby talk with his mother it is ewww

fruityb · 03/01/2019 17:04

“Did you bring DS a sandwich?”
“No I just grabbed some snacks”
“I thought I saw you make a sandwich?”
“No - I was nowhere near the bread!”
“So ds hasn’t got a sandwich?”
“No he hasn’t”
“Oh I thought you brought one”

People who constantly think I’m making stuff up!!!

Maelstrop · 03/01/2019 17:22

@MitziK

My new internet hero! Fucking fabulous rant, I love it! (Although I hope you get some sleep soon😴)

The80sweregreat · 03/01/2019 17:58

Somebody mentioned Madonna refusing to ' grow old gracefully' on here , then today there was a pic of her and the rumour is she's had ' bottom surgery' or some such.
I agree that she is annoying! Why can't she wear comfy leggings and slippers?
Some of these older singers and rockers are the same though : all thinking they are in their twenties when they are not.

Young women who dye their hair that grey colour. Just don't!

Personalisedstocking · 04/01/2019 10:10

Thought of another one.
People using "Team + Surname" when referring to themselves. I am seeing it a lot on social media these days.

Doesn't affect me.
I also might be bitter as I a) couldn't have done this as I didn't change my name on marriage and we didn't all have the same name b) am getting divorced

foxtiger · 04/01/2019 12:27

People who hold their knitting needles from below in the fancy Victorian lady style used to emphasise that they were hobbyists rather than needing to knit for money.

This one really interested me. Further upthread I nominated people who hold the needles from above as irritating - I think the reason is that they look physically uncomfortable to me, and it definitely slows you down. If holding them from below is supposed to look like a hobbyist, how come it's so much faster? genuine question and would be happy to be put right.

Darls3000 · 04/01/2019 13:05

Parents who compare the behaviour of their DC (negatively) in an attempt to shame their child. Eg 'oh Zoe, you're so good at clearing up after yourself. My DC (insert name) would never do that.' All this is said with their DC in the room. So undermining, unkind and rude. You would never do that to an adult.

Kids with iPads/phones at dining table. Just chat.

People who always need to do social stuff with other families as though they openly fear having to spend time alone. Don't know why this irritates me so much but I always want to ask them 'don't you ever just want to spend time together??' Why dilute it?

Darls3000 · 04/01/2019 13:14

Another one, friends who never ever ask a question but you spend the whole time in the coffee shop/over lunch/on the phone with them asking about them and their life etc. Makes me feel like a journalist conducting an interview. Does it never occur to ask one single question in return? Exhausting and it shouldn't effect me but it does.

Lndnmummy · 04/01/2019 13:16

Commuters that hug the pole on tubes. It makes me so angry I want to scream! They cling onto it as if it’s their long lost lover. Really pisses me off. I just wedge my hand between them and the pole with a passive aggressive “excuse me” now.0

Limensoda · 04/01/2019 13:20

People who say or write Li'l instead of little.
As in 'my Li'l man/cutie/pusscat/dog' etc..

Moneypenny007 · 04/01/2019 13:30

Radio quizzes.

They fill me with rage and I then switch off the radio.

Chewinggumwalk · 04/01/2019 13:49

“Lifestyle influencers”.

You don’t influence my life in any way, shape or form, but it irritates me that you make so much money from influencing other people.

Absolutely none of my business whatsoever, but still Angry!!

mouthkisses · 04/01/2019 14:01

Draw/drawer confusion. Baffling to anyone who isn't from southern England, but yet seems like it's bloody everywhere.

mouthkisses · 04/01/2019 14:05

Seasonal dressing, as in 31st August - Breton top and cut off chinos. 1st September - knitted poncho, over the knee leather boots.

Bizarrely people wearing heavy wool winter coats and/or a scarf beyond mid March also annoys me.

SpinSpinSpin · 04/01/2019 14:15

A guy my DH works rings in sick nearly every Monday. Doesn't affect me or even my DH as they do different roles it's just the silly excuses he comes up with. Bad back, toothache, waiting in for a plumber, childcare ... what just on a Monday?

2manybiscuits · 04/01/2019 14:17

Do not ask me how many carrier bags I want - I haven't got a clue until ive packed my shopping - makes me want to scream.

CruCru · 04/01/2019 16:43

People who wear a Canada Goose jacket or coat when it is nowhere near cold enough for one. They spent a grand on it last year and are going to get their money’s worth, even if they are completely boiling.

Grown ups who don’t use joined up handwriting. This is unfair - I learnt to use joined up handwriting at a school in the US (where handwriting was a separate lesson) but I don’t remember any real time being spent on it at my school in the UK (I am 40).

DarlingNikita · 04/01/2019 17:31

Seasonal dressing, as in 31st August - Breton top and cut off chinos. 1st September - knitted poncho, over the knee leather boots.

Yeah, I sometimes wonder if an email goes round about this and I don't receive it.

Juells · 04/01/2019 17:43

If holding them from below is supposed to look like a hobbyist, how come it's so much faster? genuine question and would be happy to be put right.

It's years since I've done any knitting, but how do you hold the knitting from below if knitting something big? A Danish friend knits all the time - on buses, in queues, while chatting - and she holds the needles from above, as I would.

MitziK · 04/01/2019 18:57

I've actually had some sleep overnight, so I'm turning my attention to seasonal matters.

Detoxing. It's not fucking detoxing, as that's a medical procedure for dealing with a life threatening physical addiction. What you are doing is simply not eating Haribo for breakfast any more shit food for a bit and drinking water instead of the stuff of life gin. You feel better and slimmer because you've had a couple of good dumps and pissed a couple of gallons out that isn't the colour of Tennants Extra.

Telling people that going vegan/gluten free/eating clean/avoiding nightshades will cure all known ills, including cancer, Autoimmune Disease and Depression. Fuck off. People get ill. Deal with it. It ISN'T THEIR FAULT.

Telling people that adding apple cider vinegar to their diet/magic water will miraculously re alkalise their bodies (and cure all known ills). Piss off. Consuming a fucking acid does not re-alkalise anything because, well, FUCKING SCIENCE YOU PRICK. And if I ever see a shop masquerading as a pharmacy flogging HIGH HYDROGEN WATER TO RESTORE YOUR ALKALINE BALANCE again, well, let's just say that the OH will not be physically preventing me from marching in there and demanding they explain how a higher proportion of hydrogen ions - which is WHAT DEFINES A FUCKING ACID - is going to make anything more fucking alkaline. In any case, if it did, through whatever magical thinking and woo-woo you like, make a difference, you wouldn't notice it - BECAUSE YOU'D BE FUCKING DEAD.

People who say 'you can't have arthritis because you're young/my Nan has it in her thumb/have you tried losing weight/exercise/akalising water/prayer'. FUCK OFF FUCK OFF FUCK OFF. There's a world of difference between your 86 year old Nan who scrubbed floors on her hands and knees and a 34 year old whose immune system has identified her joints, skin and connective tissue as a threat. And yes, we will have tried all those things, mainly because it takes years to get somebody to do the simple blood tests that show there's an inflammatory condition and there wasn't anything we wouldn't try to stop feeling so fucking shit. They didn't fucking work, which is why we're taking the scary sounding medicine now. Except for akalising stuff. We've not tried that BECAUSE WE'RE NOT FUCKING MORONS.

(and - breathe)

Instagram Diets. Yes, she's young and pretty. Yes, he's young and muscular. Odds are that she won't look so pretty when her spine crumbles away on a diet of 900 fucking bananas a day for the next 30 years. And he doesn't look so great when he's mainlining chocolate until he vomits - in between anabolic steroid injections to try and keep a high muscle mass and low body fat percentage - either.

'Healthy Diet' Foods. Taking all the fat out but replacing it with a ton of sugar is not healthy. Or a magic fucking potion.

New Year, New You. Piss off. You're still the same twat you always have been whether you're five stone heavier or three stone lighter. And that's why when you do these big changes, you still aren't fucking happy - you're imagining you'll be a different person. Nope, you'll be the same person but taking up less space on the sofa.

The entire eliminate this entire food group and you will lose weight without EVER FEELING HUNGRY. Nope. You'll lose it if, by cutting out your usual choices, you consume fewer calories overall. And if you eat vegan snack bars, vegan cakes, vegan crisps, vegan sweets, vegan biscuits and vegan burgers with vegan mayonnaise, you'll just as likely put more on (and feel equally shit)- vegan calories are the same measure of energy as non vegan ones. By all means, choose a vegan diet if you want, but don't believe it'll make you slim and healthy by magic.

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