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Duck face!

43 replies

bernadettesmurf · 30/12/2018 00:50

I know not a big deal and if I don't like it I don't have to look. BUT!!!! What is wrong with smiling???????

Received a lovely photo collage canvas of my dnephew, wife and 3dc. I have a wall in my dining room just for family photos, it's not everyone's cup of tea but I love it, every photo has dns wife pouting like a duck! Of course it will go up but I wish she was smiling instead of pouting!!!!

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Norma27 · 30/12/2018 07:06

My husband’s cousin pulls the most ridiculous duck face pout on every picture. People tell him how ridiculous he looks but he still does it every time.

recklessruby · 30/12/2018 10:58

Oh God I hate this! My dd 24 is a pretty girl but she and her friends all do that stupid duck face in Facebook pictures.
Happily on holiday with me and things like that I have lots of her smiling.
I wish people knew how ridiculous it looks!

SuchAToDo · 30/12/2018 11:10

It does look silly I have to admit and i do wonder why people post such pictures when they look so much nicer smiling...but maybe they think they look better/sexier/face looks more defined etc when they are doing duck face?

Santaisfastasleepatlast · 30/12/2018 11:13

Is her name Victoria??

Huntawaymama · 30/12/2018 11:14

I hate it. I also hate when people smile without showing their teeth, I think it's really unnatural

Drogosnextwife · 30/12/2018 11:15

It's hard to look at, make some cringe.

Birdial · 30/12/2018 11:16

Duck face is awful, but Huntawaymama some people are self conscious of their teeth, I am and don't smile with them

FlamingJuno · 30/12/2018 11:17

DH does that ridiculous two finger peace sign ✌🏻 in every photo like fucking Paul McCartney and Ringo Starr do. I hate it, we always shout at him but it's like he can't help it. It spoils every photo he's in.

Oysterbabe · 30/12/2018 11:17

I have a friend who does this too. I find it utterly bizarre.

SylvanianFamiliesNurserySet · 30/12/2018 11:19

I also hate when people smile without showing their teeth, I think it's really unnatural.

I’ve been criticised for this since childhood Hmm

Then I had children and, lo and behold, they both have silly grins too.

Haters gonna hate 🤷‍♀️

NorthernKnickers · 30/12/2018 11:28

Pouting/duckface is ridiculous. I hate it! But @Huntawaymama why do you think people need to show their teeth? That's not necessarily a 'natural' smile! A natural smile is however you smile, surely? With or without teeth. My natural smile is definitely without teeth, unless I'm laughing. I'm very self conscious about smiling, and a naturally shy person, so a big 'toothy' smile would look ridiculous on me 🤷‍♀️. Each to their own.

TulipsInbloom1 · 30/12/2018 11:31

Who would even want a photo collage canvas of their nephew, his wife and their 3 kids? What a bonkers gift to start with.

GrapesAndCheese · 30/12/2018 11:32

Ha yes duck face is awful, I have to agree. Though I also have a terrible smile and always seem to have a huge, Wallace and gromit style grin in every photo of me when I just think I'm smiling normally Grin

domton · 30/12/2018 11:33

I don't smile showing my teeth, it would look like I was grimacing. It would be very unnatural for me. Just a different shaped face/ mouth maybe? You'd think very differently if me if I smiled showing my teeth, it would be most odd :)

As for the ridiculous pout thing, yep. Agreed. They are going to be do embarrassed looking at these photos in 30 years time.

GrapesAndCheese · 30/12/2018 11:33

Clearly OP @TulipsInbloom1 "not everyone's cup of tea but I love it"

PikaPikaTink · 30/12/2018 11:37

Dp's daughter, 11, has started to do this ....

Hoppinggreen · 30/12/2018 11:40

My teen and her mates do a wide eyed surprised look on photos, slightly better than the duckface but still annoying

KirstyAllsoppsFatterTwin · 30/12/2018 11:41

If her gob is full of filler she probably couldn't smile properly if she wanted to.

brizzledrizzle · 30/12/2018 11:49

Duck face is awful, who is going to want to look at a load of photos all with duck face when they are older?

bobstersmum · 30/12/2018 11:51

I am not a fan of any posed photo really, I think photos are best when taken in the moment so to speak. We have a couple of collages of the children and they are sort of snapshots of real life. I hate selfies in general but the duck face is ridiculous.

marmiteloversunite · 30/12/2018 11:51

I find the tongue out selfie even more annoying. My young DN (11) does this and it looks horrible. Seems to be a thing with that age group.

supersop60 · 30/12/2018 11:52

I saw someone recently who'd had lip filler to giver her a permanent pout. Unfortunately, she couldn't properly close her lips.
I'm with you Op - just smile fgs.

Nousernameforme · 30/12/2018 11:59

As the dc get older I am noticing their friends are similar. You get all these happy smiling photos on their parents fb for years to be replaced by pouty teens who just look pissed off. I thought how awful it looked in all the christmas photos
My lot run from cameras so we didn't get any photos of them.

DistanceCall · 30/12/2018 12:14

I also hate when people smile without showing their teeth, I think it's really unnatural.

When I smile naturally, my teeth don't show. That's the way my mouth is shaped.

ChesterGreySideboard · 30/12/2018 12:20

I teach reception so I’m often photographing the children. Mostly it’s more candid shots when they are playing, but sometimes I’ll get them to hold up some work or a model they’ve made. Some children will do a duck face and pose for the picture. They are 4.

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