To think my friend is wrong?

[ConcernedAboutFriend]

My friend is in a relationship with a new man. Him & her still live with their respective parents so they don't get much opportunity to see each other alone. They've been to a hotel once and while they had a good time, he couldn't manage to perform. He said this was due to nerves.

She is considering spiking his drink with Viagara when they go to a hotel again next week. We are in conflict because I think this is wrong. Who IBU?

She sounds a bit sociopathic

And from my friend - 'I'm not going to spike him now obviously' so I think that's success.

Go for it. Rophinpnol firsg should do the job good n proper

I completely understand where everyone is coming from and I agree it is wrong however many people on this post are going slightly overboard and basically insinuating this woman is going to take advantage of this man he probably wants to have sex and yes maybe he is nervous, it is being insinuated that this woman is trying to take advantage of someone who doesn’t want to have sex with her

@absolutelyfuminG1
Are you the friend!

@absolutelyfuminG1 drugging someone is completely and utterly reprehensible. It doesn't matter if he wants sex, you don't fucking drug someone.

Travis Spot on I’d say 😂

Wow! He could have a heart condition or some such. Does she fancy explaining what she's done to paramedics etc? Crazy person. I'd be reconsidering friendship over this one. She clearly feels entitled to do as she pleases regardless of ethics/consequences/other people!

Why do you say "Him & her still live with their respective parents"? You wouldn't say "Her lives with her parents", would you?

If he had a reaction to the drug and died she would go to prison for manslaughter for a very very long time.

I would be asking myself if I even want to be friends with someone who would consider this.

Your friend is a fucking idiot. Please pass that along to her. Moron.

Your friend knows that this is assault?

And how will she feel when someone does this to her with horrific consequences?

Op was it a joke from your friend and you went ott?

I wouldn't say 'him still lives with...' either. He and she. Apologies. It's not me advocating this course of action, I'm discouraging it. Hence the post.

I think that pretty much settles it!

Can I add another comment for your friend please, assuming she meant what you say she said. If she was considering this at any level she's obviously worried about the impact his performance might have on a sexual relationship going forwards. If this is the case then she needs to spend time with him finding out whether they can overcome initial nerves or whether it's something that she might not be willing to invest the time in. If she's just out for the physical relationship then the suggestion is even worse, if she seriously wants an emotional relationship then she shouldn't have contemplated this at all.

When a bunch of random strangers on the internet have to talk you out of drugging someone without their knowledge or consent, then you have serious issues.

this is a worrying situation, hopefully your friend now sees sense.

Right oh...

@absolutelyfuminG1 so what would you say if a man used that exact argument that the woman obviously wanted to have sex with him and was just nervous so he slipped her some rohypnol to calm her down? Drugging people without their knowledge or consent is wrong regardless of what the drug is.

There’s a slight difference between viagara and rohypnol 😂😂

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Does viagra even dissolve? He'll be sat there with his Malibu and Umbongo, with a blue diamond blocking his straw and beneath his umbrella. Shit idea.

Very dramatic likening spiking someone to the point of unconsciousness and someone getting hard

She should tie him to the bed first then drug him perhaps ?

There is absolutely no difference between viagra and any other drug, the principle is exactly the same - you don’t fucking give anyone drugs of any kind without their express consent!