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To think my friend is wrong?

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ConcernedAboutFriend · 29/12/2018 22:37

My friend is in a relationship with a new man. Him & her still live with their respective parents so they don't get much opportunity to see each other alone. They've been to a hotel once and while they had a good time, he couldn't manage to perform. He said this was due to nerves.

She is considering spiking his drink with Viagara when they go to a hotel again next week. We are in conflict because I think this is wrong. Who IBU?

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NotANotMan · 29/12/2018 22:38

She's considering drugging him without his knowledge?
You need to tell her that you'll report her to the police if she does this Hmm

Cloglover · 29/12/2018 22:39

Spiking anyone's drink is wrong. Your friend sounds unhinged!

coconutpie · 29/12/2018 22:39

Of course it is wrong, she is drugging him! That is an awful breach of trust.

Queenofthestress · 29/12/2018 22:39

That is a huge what the fuck and isnt it illegal to spike someones drink even if its not an illegal drug?

Bloomini · 29/12/2018 22:39

You really need to ask?

Your friend is an idiot.

Katinkka · 29/12/2018 22:39

Dear God..

JustHereForThePooStories · 29/12/2018 22:41

Drugging someone so that they’re more likely to have sex with you is just wrong.

Lwmommy · 29/12/2018 22:41

Lets hope he doesnt have a heart condition or the viagra could kill him!

Clevs · 29/12/2018 22:41

Viagra can have serious consequences if a person is on other medication. She could potentially be putting his health at risk.

Santaisfastasleepatlast · 29/12/2018 22:41

My exh reacted badly to it when he took it for a laugh!! Blinding headache, vomiting. Oh and had an erection for 7 hours -!!

BruceAndNosh · 29/12/2018 22:42

If she is able to get hold of viagra, she could discuss with him if he wanted to give a go, but slipping it to him is 100 types of wrong

theworldistoosmall · 29/12/2018 22:43

Fuck me. What is she thinking?
Let’s reverse this hey? Would you be asking who is wrong of their sexes where reversed. He wants to drug her for sex?

birdiewoof · 29/12/2018 22:43

Of course it’s wrong. Geez.

Pachyderm1 · 29/12/2018 22:44

Fucking hell thats so wrong. Is she actually serious?

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ConcernedAboutFriend · 29/12/2018 22:44

Thank you! She is here with me now and I'm showing her the replies.

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MiddleClassProblem · 29/12/2018 22:44

Wow.

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ConcernedAboutFriend · 29/12/2018 22:48

littlecabbage, if you don't think it's real just report me. I've said that I think it's wrong, it was to demonstrate to her how many others would agree with me.

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Thehop · 29/12/2018 22:49

What if he had medical issues? She could kill him!!!

Absolutely ridiculous suggestion, she’s an idiot at best.

BollocksToBrexit · 29/12/2018 22:49

Does she fancy 10 years at her majesty's pleasure? Because that's the sentence it carries.

PinkCalluna · 29/12/2018 22:50

How would your friend feel if a man drugged her drink so that she would have sex with him...?

It’s a horrific suggestion.

ashtrayheart · 29/12/2018 22:52

Of course it’s wrong.

treaclesoda · 29/12/2018 22:52

I'm trying to think of a response but I can't

CripsSandwiches · 29/12/2018 22:53

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ConcernedAboutFriend · 29/12/2018 22:55

It isn't fake, it report me if you think it is. I don't know how many different ways I can say I think it's wrong and I asked her if I could demonstrate that people would agree with me by posting here.

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