wintryfrost I'm presuming a dirty toilet alone wouldn't be the deal breaker for social services of a sign of abuse. I'm guessing a dirty toilet and a dirty house in general would be considered as evidence in addition to other more serious red flags already noted.
Redwinnels no that's fair enough. That's an honest question. I cleaned my kitchen, and I generally do so anyway in general, every evening after clearing up all the washing up etc. So yes the kitchen was cleaned both Xmas evening and boxing day evening, just a worktop and sink clean not a oven, floor etc full clean, so the kitchen was cleaner than the toilet but if I were to have prepared food on the toilet seat then that would have been cleaned beforehand too. I do my food preparation in the kitchen however.
shotsfired I'm not a maid no. I am married to an old fashioned man who likes to go down the pub fairly regularly, that sort of macho guy who thinks certain jobs are men and some are for woman. That's just the way he is. I can honestly say he has never once cleaned the toilet in all the time ive known him. I would be fruitless to even try and change him now.
So for those that routinely/obsessively clean the toilet daily or multiple times a day and saying it only takes a few moments to do a toilet clean, is it because you are socially conditioned to believe our toilets shouldn't look like places we put our bodily waste? Or are the cleaning companies brainwashing you to think that toilet germs are some sort spawns of Satan and not cleaning the toilet would put your health at risk?
I have previously wondered onto these Mrs Hinch fb groups and instagram pages where people seem to actively enjoy cleaning. To me cleaning is not enjoyable it is just a necessity and something that falls onto my lap in this house.