I never thought I was unusual among my peers sex life wise but have been out for drinks with friends of varying ages 26 to 45 (my age) tonight and out of the 15 of us I was the only one not to have had a one night stand. I am not by any means a prude nor inexperienced sexually or in a marriage since teenage years. I married twice (both ended in dv) and have slept with 6 other people. I just felt tonight as though I had missed out on something. I have been celibate for nearly 9 years now and am wondering if there are some good arguments for just going out and home with someone that I have previously not got?