Ok, basically summary. Dad of 2, Dd 7 and ds 3. Found out last week my wife has been having an affair since January, things haven’t been right since oooh about january...
We are remaining civil and even friendly (even though I am completely broken) as we never really argue anyway but she keeps saying I haven’t asked who it is yet as it’s the first thing she’d want to know she says.
I’m not interested in who it is though and think it would make me feel even worse.
Aibu and should I just find out?