To ask if you’ve ever been flamed on AIBU?

[Calvinsmam]

Just reading AIBU and wondering if you’ve ever been flamed for something you posted?

I once got crucified for sharing that I was tired from geting up in the night to let me cat drink from the tap. It was my first time at the rodeo and I was a bit thin skinned about it.

I’ve been here years now and I couldn’t give a shit anymore.

What have you been flamed for??

[Tessliketrees]

Calvinsmam

Oh I assumed it was a weird hygiene thing. It makes even less sense now, why would anybody give a fuck what you did for your cat? LTCB shes gas lighting you? Your cat will grow up to be entitled? Your cat's typical of todays generation of cat's? I can't imagine the logic.

[MrsTommyBanks]

Calvinsmam well you are clearly a cat slave. Know your place lol

[Calvinsmam]

That was a great was to deal with it tommy

[NoCanoe]

Not a flaming as such.....But a comment was made that I sounded 'a bit strange '.

I was at wits end , so maybe I did sound a bit strange.....but apart from that superb pearl of wisdom, I remember nothing else she said.

[MrsTommyBanks]

Why - wtf

[thighofrelief]

I vented that i was tired of my very aggressive neighbour screaming and swearing in the street. I didn't understand about drip feeding and added something on the following page. I actually got banned!

[Calvinsmam]

Oh I assumed it was a weird hygiene thing. It makes even less sense now, why would anybody give a fuck what you did for your cat?

And you know for a FACT if I posted saying that I was going to lock my cat In he kitchen because she was asking me for a drink I’d get pulled over the coals, told i should never keep pets, the works.

[MrsTommyBanks]

One of my finer parenting moments. Few and far between admittedly.

[MrsTommyBanks]

thighofrelief I remember that one too!
It was savage.

[Calvinsmam]

I meant turning the tv up was a great way to deal with your daughter, I can’t imagine how mortifying it must have been for you. tommy

[Calvinsmam]

Well I’ve got to ask about the Mouldies now!

[Calvinsmam]

I think it’s always reassuring to know that when you’re getting flamed there’s alway lurkers being like WTF?

[MrsTommyBanks]

More uncomfortable than mortifying tbf. Part of my original thread was that I was happy she felt able to enjoy her sexuality. I just didn't enjoy hearing it. I didn't want to inhibit her.
Someone accused her of getting off on me hearing her. Which was crap. She was just, yanno, in her moment.

[MrsTommyBanks]

Og God. Dont ask about the Mouldies.
No good will come of it.

[Calvinsmam]

Oh my giddy aunts why would you say that to someone?

[thighofrelief]

Tommy completely savage! I was told rather than judging my aggressive neighbour i should go and see in what way I could help her with her life. Bonkers.

[Calvinsmam]

?????

But that could put you in danger.
Why would anybody involve themselves with an aggressive person for no reason.

[Calvinsmam]

Hey highly volatile and aggressive person I would like to offer you some unsolicited help.

Yup can see that going well.

[Greensleeves]

Sooooooooooo many times.

One poster actually registered with the express purpose of telling me to fuck off. She's still around, I think! She turned out to be quite decent.

I've been chewed up and spat out more times than I can remember. Always swear I won't get into it again. Until i do.

[Calvinsmam]

Always swear I won't get into it again. Until i do.

Ltb

[MrsTommyBanks]

SnipSnipMrBurgess That sounds awful. There are definitely an element of aibu that just live to hurt I think.

[thighofrelief]

Calvin well exactly! They ripped me to shreds and did it en masse like a Mexican wave.

[Greensleeves]

Calvinsmam, I tried ltb, but ended up crawling back like a dog returning to its vomit

[MrsTommyBanks]

Greensleeves

[Calvinsmam]

greensleeves

Yup.