As Mum how would you feel about request from step mum?

[OhComeOnRon]

Currently due with my 2nd, my husbands 3rd. Wanted to get him a photo gift for Xmas with scan pics of the 3 of them on and was going to text stepsons wife to see if she had his to send me and didn't really think much of it until a friend said

'Isn't that a bit weird? Won't she be annoyed by it?'

And now I'm not sure. No issues in relationship we all get on, we have stepson every weekend and I just thought it'd be weirder to get him something with only 2 of his kids on?

Yep weird! Like comparing uteruses, I’ve never had my scan pic on display or been one to post that kind of thing on social media either.

Newborn pics would be a nice idea, though.

Weird. I also wouldn't want that gift from my partner.

I agree with all the suggestions to wait until you have three newborn pictures.

The OP has listened to everyone and asked for thoughts on a different present for him now..why are people still telling her how weird it is?!

excited it's because a lot of people don't read the thread then wade in with their two penny worth whether it be nasty, silly or just rehashing the most popular point of view.

Does he like an particular food or drink? Does he have a favourite author? Any hobbies?

Tell us a little about his likes and dislikes, and maybe we can come up with some ideas.

I don't think it's an awful idea, but I would say no if my daughter's step mum asked for my scan photos. They're very personal to me, I don't see them as part of my DD's story more part of mine.

If she wanted baby pics etc for the same purpose I'd happily provide them, but the scan photos I feel differently about.