No invite to the wedding?

[alicert]

I have two close friends and through them introduced to 3 other girls.
We go out socially on nights out and holidays etc.
One of these girls was getting married today.
Me and the other 4 girls planned her hen weekend and all went away for two nights.
The girls were talking about how good her wedding would be but I got no invite.
Now I assumed I wouldn't be invited to the wedding but I assumed I would get a invite to the reception.
Nothing ...I'm the only one who went on the hen weekend without a invite.
I feel like such a idiot,now clearly I wouldn't of been missed if I hadn't of went on the weekend away as I didn't make the reception cut.
Bare in mind the reception is just a disco with a bar (you have to pay for own drinks) so she wouldn't have to pay etc
I feel like a idiot.

OP they're not friends but users. The bride is a nasty piece of work but the others are just as bad both by their actions especially having their own What'sApp group no doubt bitching about you.

They used you to contribute to the present and no doubt the hen do.

That’s awful! She’s no friend 😡

Look at it this way,you chipped in for the present.But it was cheap for the price as you know what they are like now.

You didnt waste any more years before finding.Its their lss.Fuckers

Hope that you are ok OP. As PP have said, that is terrible conduct on their part, and it's time for new friends. Big unmumsnettt hugs xx

OP, it's the two close friends I would be most upset with them. Fuck them all, friendships between people happy to do this shit eventually implode anyway. Just don't be there to pick up the pieces.

Sorry that sucks!! Been in your shoes so I know how you feel. She’s so thoughtless to not invite you to the reception.. like you said it’s a cash bar anyway... big hug

You need new friends, OP.

They should be embarrassed by their absolute lack of social skills and basic manners.
I’d drop them all OP they sound like proper dicks

@alicert how are you feeling today?