Is dh being unreasonable

[poptartprincess]

I've just been making cupcakes. I got some different cases and they seemed to be made of card. He just went mental at me for putting the cupcakes in the oven. He thinks I don't think and I did it to annoy him. He says I risked pissing him off if they caught fire. I said no I just put some cupcakes in the oven not everything revolves around him. He said I never listen and I don't care what he wants. He's now left me with DD and stormed off upstairs. Who's being the unreasonable one here.

He uses your mental health issues as a defense to his stupidity? This man sounds like a vile twat.

He sounds like he's using any MH probs you have to deflect attention from his own. No emotionally stable person acts like that. The convo should have gone him: 'are those paper cases OK to go in the oven?' you: 'think so....' him: 'oh, OK - we'd better keep an eye on them if we're not sure'. At best, he doesn't sound good for you, at worse he's a bully and life's too short. X