I shouldn't even be thinking about this today because I'm upset enough as it is. I have a partner. We don't live together. It's a weekend thing really with a view to it becoming more serious as time goes on.
I text him last night to say that my beloved cat had had a stroke (she had a series of problems) and that it wasn't looking good. I'd been to the emergency vet and brought her home with me after some treatment. I was devestated.
She died in the night. I am beyond sad. He knows what I'm like with that cat and how she meant the world to me.
I texted him this morning with the news after taking her little body to the vets for cremation so I can bring her ashes home to me.
I've had nothing back from him.
He doesn't have a job. He's at home all day sleeping and playing video games.
He wrote off his car last week (no injuries - but is looking for a new one - so I suppose he could be busy with that).
I'm actually past the point of caring, I think. AIBU to tell him to sling his fucking hook? Or would that be an overreaction?
I feel let down by him a lot. He never answers messages or the phone. He won't get a job. He talks about us buying a house together and all the rest of it, but is it too much to ask for a little message to say he's sorry about my cat? To look at his phone more often? To check in on me? He knows I've chucked a wobbler about this so many times in the past... so what's going on?
What would you do?