I'm a SAHM to teenagers, with a husband with a high flying exec', six figure job.
He's also a fantastic cook, an incredibly hands on and involved father, a great husband, and if he sees anything needs doing around the house, gets on and does it. He takes full advantage of flexible working conditions, to try and do everything as it needs to be done, including conference calls to at least five different time zones.
I'm fully qualified in a professional career, but because of life events and the way his career took off, I gave up my intention to pursue it. So instead, when I've been working since we had the kids, I've been working in admin', and that's what I'd look for again, so as not to have two lots of high pressure work stress and commitments.
My life might look a doddle on the outside, but as a pp said, money doesn't disappear other challenges and stresses - like chronic ill health, addiction, mental health issues, parents getting old and frail, kids issues, and for us, the stress of having just uprooted and relocated the entire family to the other side of the world, none of us PARTICULARLY wanting to do it, but realistically it was the optimal choice for us.
As they say, money sometimes just buys a better class of misery. And unfortunately, as good as he is at earning it - we're just even better at spending it! We're SHITE with money. So financial security still isn't what we're feeling at the minute, especially after the expense of relocation.
Sorry about the novel.