Would you believe your DP/DH if you found condoms & he said he uses them to masturbate into?

[FrustratedDP]

I’m just not buying it.

Absolutely 100 percent no I would not believe him.

Nope sorry.
DH also says no, sorry.

Generally nope I wouldn't believe it but you know your partner best. I actually had an ex who did this once, I went to work and he had stayed over at my place, it was earlish into the relationship, most definitely in the honey moon stage and I found a used condom which he said he had wanked into. We were using condoms so they were around. If he had been cheating I am fairly sure he would have gone home to do it.

nope.
but i think we need more background - how did you find them? where were they? have you been together long?

I'm just gonna point out again.. I heard a sex therapist before saying this is a technique used to to gradually build up to a longer "performance". So op if there were issues there that could be another factor?

What else has been going on, OP? You say you suspect an affair with a parent from a kids' club - why?

YANBU. Sorry

Nope.

Unlikely...

Nope sorry. If he was wanking with it, you would already know, you won’t just be ‘discovering’ the condom. He might buy it with the weekly shopping, it would be in a drawer, he would have told you about it and you won’t have to find out.
Hope you’re okay

He's probably lying

No sorry I wouldn't believe him. As a teenager this was a thing but never heard of an adult doing it.

As others have pointed out, he'd have been doing it from the off, not several years down the line. Sorry OP. Hope you're okay

I'd think he was lying

Nopety noo, lying fuck

Haha.. nope

Uh no.....also a waste of money!

Not really but he can sleep with who he likes. Doesn't bother me.

🤥
Uh oh

Sounds quite revolting, almost infantile. I don't think I would believe him. There's no need to use a condom for masturbation, or anything really, there's the bath and shower if it is necessary.

I'd be quite suspicious.

I'm with the rest . There's something happening.

Tell him you had an overwhelming need to stab them with a needle, bit like popping bubblewrap and watch his face.

Guys do use them to desensitize if they cum too quick y'know. It creates a phantom hand feel for some too. Not all blokes who wank in to a condom are cheaters OP. But you know him best 🤞

Hogtini

No, wouldn't wash with me. I can't imagine him having the thought process to go and buy some condoms for a wank.

^^

EXACTLY.

Yes.

I have known a "friend" to have done it. Desensitization can be beneficial.

OP, I suspect you'd get a very different response on a forum mostly used by men.

Sounds quite revolting, almost infantile. I don't think I would believe him. There's no need to use a condom for masturbation, or anything really, there's the bath and shower if it is necessary.

Don't you know what happens when sponk meets warm water?