Tbh, I don’t like the “hypocrite” label
when it comes to this sort of thing. We are all “hypocrites” technically, as nobody is perfect.
Vegans who eat imported quinoa, avocados or palm oil in their treats.
Or like the man I know who was very noisy about population and all things eco who is now undergoing IVF with his gf as they have fertility issues. Apparently it’s ok and in fact, desirable, for HIM to reproduce, just not everyone else
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I don’t do as much as I can, but I’m trying. If I wanted to avoid being called a hypocrite, would I have to stop trying altogether? That’s a dangerous idea.
The op shouldn’t have said “immoral” imo, but she is quite clearly spinning out a bit about climate change, so maybe cut her some slack?
What does irk me is the many people saying “I will continue to do so...”. Basically; I do x, y or z, I know it’s not ideal, but I’m going to continue to do so.
I fly short haul myself, maybe twice a year and I don’t feel good about it. So I might try and reduce that to once a year. My family sometimes have to fly to London with work, so I feel less bad if I catch up with them then.
I also have had a car for the past year (for the first time ever as I resisted for a long time). I don’t use it much, but I know I shouldn’t have it. So I’m thinking of getting rid of it and buying a cargo bike for transporting babies.
I’m trying to reduce plastic use and going veggie with very little dairy. But I’m technically a hypocrite because I do lots of the wrong things too.
But there’s no way I would just shrug my shoulders and say “I will continue to do this...”. At least I am trying and taking on board what the op rightly says about flying.
Maybe that’s what people actually mean when they say they will continue to do x, y or z though... they will continue to do it, but reduce maybe? And maybe I’m wrongly taking it to mean they will continue EXACTLY as before.
YY, to the pp saying it’s not like you can return children to sender. It’s not exactly helpful, and it comes up on every climate change thread; “You can’t talk if you’ve had children” says someone, as if it’s news that additional people (children) create a larger carbon footprint. That message has been repeated on this (parenting) forum, ad nauseum, for years.
It’s fine to point it out and indeed, I think it needs to be discussed more, but not in the way it’s bandied about as a weapon on here. Oh, thought you were allowed views on climate change? Nah. If you have children, shut up.
For one thing, it isn’t as simple as no children = good, children = bad. It’s already been discussed at length on here, so before I get a bunch of responses saying “it really is that simple”, maybe try reading before writing. Just a polite suggestion
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I totally agree that population is a huge problem and I wouldn’t encourage people to have children, especially more than two. But equally, I don’t feel it is my place to tell people not to have them. Maybe the time will come soon enough, when we have one or two child policies.
Anyway, there are other issues at play, such as the ageing population due to people living longer and then the huge issue of overconsumption.
As I’ve already said, a large family in parts of Africa consumes less than a single person in the west, which implies to me that population and having babies is not the only problem.
Again, I don’t think that means, “go forth and multiply”. Deciding to have children does, and should, require serious thought and a change in the damaging expectation that EVERYONE must breed, regardless of whether they really want to.