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To be fucked off with 'leaps' for babies?

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harper30 · 30/10/2018 15:09

Christ alive I've just been for lunch with a load of mum friends, we all have babies under the age of one, and I swear if I hear the word 'leap' again one more time I will throttle somebody.
It's all based on this book/app called 'The Wonder Weeks' and it was recommended to me by so many people when I first had my baby. But the author was literally sacked from their university and I'm pretty sure had their doctorate stripped from them for issues with the research done for the book. So I didn't bloody bother buying it.
I understand that it's reassuring to know that when your child is being mental and won't sleep it's a 'leap' so that helps to explain it and you know they're upset for a reason.
But fuck me.
'Oh little Timmy is about to go into leap four, heaven help us all!'
'Yes little Debbie just finished leap 5, it was a week early and it was a shocker!'
'Ooooh we're due for little Jimmy's leap 5 now, we've only got a few days before it starts! Better get some sleep now!'

I never never point out that stuff about the authors to people because I don't want to shit on anything. But I had to let it out somewhere.

Does anyone else ever encounter this around parents of young children?
Are you guilty of bumming the leaps as hard as my mum friends??

And breathe. Thank you for reading.

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Esker · 30/10/2018 22:12

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Esker · 30/10/2018 22:32

Messaged to say I agree OP! Then I threw in an anecdote... but realised it could be identifying so had to request deletion. Anyway, totally with you that leaps are unscientific nonsense.

SoundofSilence · 31/10/2018 08:54

@oh4forkssake Grin

"I've seen them do it. Therefore it can be done. Feet don't fail me now...."
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"Fuck"
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"FuckFuckFuckFuck"

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"Why is this happening to me?"
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"Okay, I need a drink of milk and to hurt someone."

Limensoda · 31/10/2018 08:54

I think everyone is caught up in monitoring and measuring, comparing and worrying when we have babies.
We make it more complicated than we need to.
I read books when I had my daughter. I had zero confidence and the more advice I heard, the worse I felt. I was always anxious.
My daughter had her son when she was 21 and was a single mum. She didn't read anything or take notice of any well intentioned advice and ignored a lot of what was considered right or wrong (even when I pointed things out Grin)
She trusted herself. I wish I had been like that.

practicallyperfectmummy · 31/10/2018 09:00

Total placebo effect, they don't have leaps but it calms new mums who are stressing over why their child won't sleep. Much better baby books out there offering advice on sleep and routines.

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