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To ask how much you owe on credit cards ?

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anxiousmotherof1 · 26/10/2018 15:49

Getting to the end of maternity leave and i just realized i owe quite a bit on credit cards ! Dont think is that much but my husband is of the opposite opinion !
So how much you currently owe ?

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MeteorMedow · 26/10/2018 18:20

About £100 - just using it to separate wedding expenses from living ones. Pay it off every month.

🤔 If you’re on maternity leave with his child then surely you AND he have £5500 on a CC not just YOU.

WishfulHope · 26/10/2018 18:21

15k because we moved house last year, brought new furniture and I was a sahm.
I’m working now so paying it all off within next year.

PsychedelicSheep · 26/10/2018 18:23

I've just got my first ever credit card at age 39!

Buying and renovating a house this year rinsed all my savings so I got it for emergencies (car related etc).

I owe £110 odd on it.

notacooldad · 26/10/2018 18:28

*They're never a good option and just leave you in a cycle of debt. Pay it off and cut it up!
What tosh. They can be a good option if they are managed wisely and used as a useful resource.

Here are some good reasons why a credit card can be a good thing. I have taken 'this from a financial site I use.

Safety
Paying with a credit card makes it easier to avoid losses from fraud. When your debit card is used by a thief, the money is missing from your account instantly. Legitimate expenses for which you've scheduled online payments or mailed checks may bounce, triggering insufficient funds fees and making your creditors unhappy. Even if not your fault, these late or missed payments can also lower your credit score. It can take a while for the fraudulent transactions to be reversed and the money restored to your account while the bank investigates.

By contrast, when your credit card is used fraudulently, you aren't out any money – you just notify your credit card company of the fraud and don't pay for the transactions you didn't make while the credit card company resolves the matter.

Keeping Vendors Honest
Say you hire a tile setter to set some tile. Workers spend the weekend cutting, measuring, grouting, placing the spacers and tiles and letting the whole thing set. They then charge you $4,000 for their troubles.

You draw upon your savings account and write a check. But what do you do when, 72 hours later, the tile starts to shift and the grout still hasn't set? Your entryway is now a complete mess, and that vein in your forehead won't stop throbbing.

You can take up the issue with your state licensing board, but that process could take months and the contractor still has your money. That's why, if you can, you should pay for a big-ticket item like this with a credit card. The issuer has an incentive to discourage fraud among its vendors, and if there is a problem, they have a mechanism to try to resolve it. More important, if you dispute the charge, the card issuer withholds the funds from the tile setter, and not only will you get your money back, you might even get help finding a new contractor.

Grace Period
When you make a debit card purchase, your money is gone right away. When you make a credit card purchase, your money remains in your checking account until you pay your credit card bill.

Hanging on to your funds for this extra time can be helpful in two ways. First, the time value of money, however infinitesimal, will add to wealth. Postponing payment makes your purchase that much cheaper. Beyond that, your cash will spend more time in your bank account, and if you pay your credit card from a high-interest checking account and earn on your money during the grace period, the extra will eventually add up to a meaningful amount.

Second, when you always pay with a credit card, you don't have to watch your bank account balance as closely.

Insurance
Most credit cards automatically come with a plethora of consumer protections that people don't even realize they have, such as rental car insurance, travel insurance and product warranties that may exceed the manufacturer's warranty.

Universal Acceptance
Certain purchases are difficult to make with a debit card. When you want to rent a car or stay in a hotel room, you'll almost certainly have an easier time if you have a credit card. Rental car companies and hotels want customers to pay with credit cards because it makes it easier to charge customers for any damage they cause to a room or a car.

So if you want to pay for one of these items with a debit card, the company may insist on putting a hold of several hundred dollars on your account. Also, when you're traveling in a foreign country, merchants won't always accept your debit card – even when it has a major bank logo on it.

Building Credit
If you have no credit or are trying to improve your credit score, using a credit card responsibly will help, because credit card companies will report your payment activity to the credit bureaus. Debit card use doesn't appear anywhere on your credit report, however, so it can't help you build or improve your credit.

prettybird · 26/10/2018 18:31

£830 on one and waiting for the statement on the other (think it will be about £400 this month) - but both will be paid in full as usual by the due date so no interest will be charged.

I put as much as possible onto the cards (especially as I get M&S vouchers from one and cashback on the other). The £830 one includes £325 (Shock) monthly council tax charge.

puguin86 · 26/10/2018 18:33

Zero. But not long ago DP had £11k on ons. It nearly broke up our marriage tbh because he just bought shit whilst I was trying to pay all the bills.

I warned DH if he ever does it again we are done !

BentNeckLady · 26/10/2018 18:36

£2400 ish.

tinytemper66 · 26/10/2018 18:36

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wewillrememberthem · 26/10/2018 18:38

Several cards totalling about £25k all on 0% and we pay minimum each month.

AriadnePersephoneCloud · 26/10/2018 18:39

8k (did have nothing but one of those years), is all on a zero percent til August 2020 though so should have it cleared by then 😄

Iwantaunicorn · 26/10/2018 18:44

Was about 8k this time last year, now about £1200. Will be debt free by January next year, but it’s all 0% until 2020. As I’ve paid one card off, I’ve added that payment to the next card, so am currently paying a minimum of £450 a month, but have paid off around 2k this month on it.

The debt came from paying for a course, our yearly car insurances, a shopping splurge, new phones, paying off an od that was costing a pound a day, and no idea on the rest!

I’m looking forward to the debt being gone, and saving that money instead.

anxiousmotherof1 · 26/10/2018 18:48

The most common answer seems to be zero which suprises me !
I will definately make it a priority to pay it back but i dont think i will ever stop using credit cards as many people said its safer for some things
We also have a common ba card which we do all our shopping( grocery , fuel ) with but we pay that in full every month (well my dh does)

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BonnieF · 26/10/2018 18:51

Zero.

In fact, I get paid to use my credit card. It’s a John Lewis partnership card, which earns points every time I use it. I use it to pay for almost everything and pay off the balance in full every month. The points accumulate and are turned into JL/Waitrose vouchers. I got £30 worth this month.

IceBearRocks · 26/10/2018 18:52

Zero

spidey66 · 26/10/2018 18:53

About a grand, which I can easily pay off by Christmas

Inniu · 26/10/2018 18:55

8k, but it will be paid tomorrow. Cleared by direct debit every month. Wouldn’t usually be that high though.

Jessiemay88 · 26/10/2018 19:01

Im coming to the end of maternity too..have 2000ish. Not to worried as some on 0% and im paying decent amounts off them. Dont worry too much, try and do a transfer to 0% if you can

Firesuit · 26/10/2018 19:01

I use them for holidays, nights out or away.
I couldn't care less, I'm not a huge earner but I can pay some off every month
I refuse to spend my life not e joying myself or taking trips with the dc
No ones cares when your dead, I'd rather my dcs say they had a ball with mum rather than 'my mum died with only £10 on her credit card'

Assuming (perhaps over-optimistically) that you aren't planning to leave an unpaid balance when you die, I'd just like to point out that having credit card debt makes, at best, absolutely no difference to the amount you can spend over the whole of your life. If you ever pay any interest, it reduces the amount you can spend.

So you are definitely not getting more fun by running up debts. You may be shifting the timing of it forwards slightly. You are also probably making sub-optimal spending decisions, as by the time the money you've alread spent comes in, your priorities may be different, but you will have no choice but to use it to repay the debt on the spending choice you made before you knew what your priorities would be.

Firesuit · 26/10/2018 19:10

I think I got my first credit card in 1987. The advice I took then was to pay off the full balance by direct debit every month. I haven't really change my view that that's the best approach since then.

TheToldYouSoDance · 26/10/2018 19:11

8K. We’ve both got loans too. Not much spending left at the end of the month, but we can save enough for a small holiday every year so I count us very lucky. We’ve got this for 5 years, but after that we’ll be in zero debt.

Contrary to many on here, I kind of admire mozzchops’ outlook. I couldn’t do it myself; too much of a worrier, but I’d love to just say fuck it. My mum’s credit cards were written off when she died; my dad knew nothing about them.

Bishalisha · 26/10/2018 19:15

£2565 on 0% have had a tough few financial years and it’s built up. Working on paying it off over the next 18 months though.

When I was a single parent I had a £2k debt that I couldn’t shift and managed to be ruthless when I went back to work to pay it off. Looking forward to being back in that position again!

anxiousmotherof1 · 26/10/2018 19:16

@TheToldYouSoDance i also admire the fuck it approach to be honest

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Marmite27 · 26/10/2018 19:18

£100 on one and £150-Ish on another.

The higher one is used for grocery shopping and is paid off every month. The first one is my spending on maternity leave, it’ll be paid off before the end of the year. It’s usually paid off straight away.

SummerStrong · 26/10/2018 19:18

I knew before I clicked on this thread that it would've started by an army of posters saying 'zero' 'nothing' 'don't have credit cards'

I'm glad you got more realistic view as the thread continued OP

Bluntness100 · 26/10/2018 19:21

I'm glad you got more realistic view as the thread continued OP

Huh? It's clearly realistic if it's true. The fact you may have debt doesn't mean others don't.

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