Transgender folk have all the human rights the rest of us... We are all human, they apply equally. Which human right in particular are we taking about? I think human rights are being retranslated beyond the original meaning when you say this.
but that trans women are often bemused at best when they are called in for a cervical smear, frustrated at a health system that doesn’t quite understand trans identities yet.
Okay, it might have been fake news, might have been an admin error or could have been someone called to an "appointment"without knowing what it was. But here is the issue - transwomen either are women or they are not... Mentally, socially psychologically a female fine, but medically you either are or you aren't. You can't claim to be an actual woman and be medically treated as a man... That would be invalidating the narrative - transwomen are women, even though they are not women at appointments, but they are in the changing rooms, or when it's an advantage. Same with sports... If you have testosterone, enlarged heart and lung capacity, different pelvic structure and increased height you can't claim that it's winning to play against born females with none of those advantages. You certainly can't claim that it breaches your human rights to take testosterone blockers if you insist are a woman - you made a choice to not have physical male privilege, either live as a woman without testosterone or stay out of women's sports. Once all these can be changed by surgery no one is likely to have an issue - but that's a problem for the trans community. What is being asked is that society pretends that it sees the Emperors new clothes when he's stark naked, and accepts that identifying like a tree makes you an actual tree with wildlife protection rules applied.
Transgender folk are something different, something new, and that's absolutely fine. Different is good.
As for the whole suicide thing - the confirmed facts are something like 1.7% and the propaganda is saying 48-98% - often quoting lazy questionnaires with biased samples probably with leading questions to a group that has been bombarded with the message that being suicidal makes you a real trans. It's used over and over as emotional blackmail and really its either just very childish or being trans qualifies as a serious mental health condition... Which is it? You can say its the hell trans people have to live with, but very few people are happy with who they are - we hate our voices, our noses, our hair, our weight, our income- we are all born wishing we were something else and we all have to come to terms with accepting ourselves - if someone can't, the problem is with self acceptance.
On a side note, maybe it would help the trans movement to not go on about mermaids, butterflies, glitter families and unicorns... Makes it hard to treat the issue as rational and intelligent. Also, insisting born women are consulted when crazy ideas like womxn come up might give the movement some credibility, as would not having posters defining the word woman taken down, stopping feminist debates and spurting out the word transphobic every time someone asks a difficult question.
I've seen very little hating from the mumsnet community - everyone accepts transgender people as transgender people, but not the issues that are putting women down and putting them at risk and unraveling the equality women have fought tooth and nail for over millennia.
Rights for everyone - but not at the degradation of others.
You state we are in the wrong without much explanation... Being unfashionable isn't the same as being wrong. If history shows us anything it is that popularity and truth have no correlation.
Transwomen and transmen are fine, no individuals are criticised for being who they want to be- the results of trans activism is at times oppressive and recklessly dangerous to women and children (I'm talking puberty blockers). Mumsnetters are only against that.