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to suddenly be scared to give birth now my contractions have started?

324 replies

ActiveBlend · 21/10/2018 20:08

I'm 38 weeks pregnant and have recently started having what I think are pre-labour contractions. They're a lot more painful than I thought they would be and I'm now dreading active labour. I've always weirdly looked forward to childbirth but now I'm starting to experience it, I feel a bit freaked.

Sorry for posting in AIBU. I know I'm not BU, but was wondering if anyone else experienced the same? A pre-labour freakout?

All of a sudden very scared about the pain and how I'll get through it...

OP posts:
CuppaTeaAndAJammieDodger · 22/10/2018 21:26

Ahhhhh, lovely! Well done you!

tessiegirl · 22/10/2018 21:30

Huge congratulations!

bedtimestories · 22/10/2018 21:33

Congratulations 👣💐

Helendipity · 22/10/2018 21:33

Aw congratulations 💕💕💕 you’re amazing!

Lovethetimeyouhave · 22/10/2018 21:47

Yay! Cobgratulations!!!

Ennirem · 22/10/2018 21:53

Hurrah! See, told you Grin You're a hero! Enjoy the lovely baby xx

Serialweightwatcher · 22/10/2018 21:59

Yaaaaaaaaaaaaaay - you did it - you superstar (not that you had a choice, but very well done) Star Flowers

glueandstick · 22/10/2018 23:08

Well done you!

Rebecca36 · 22/10/2018 23:10

Well done! Am so delighted for you, great news.

Kittykat93 · 23/10/2018 13:02

Congratulations op 🎉

Stars1979 · 23/10/2018 14:17

Can’t wait to hear more 😊

TokyoSushi · 23/10/2018 15:17

Hurrah! Well done OP!

RedDrink · 23/10/2018 16:53

Congratulations! Flowers Hope you're getting some rest.

Cali13 · 23/10/2018 17:36

GOOD LUCK. U can do this op 💕💕

Cali13 · 23/10/2018 17:38

Oops seen you had your little boy. Congrats !!! Go u superstar

PurplePenguins · 23/10/2018 17:51

Congratulations Active and welcome to world little man Flowers

olbndansmummy · 23/10/2018 18:09

How wonderful for you active. Congratulations to you, your dp and baby active x

teediebellsmum · 23/10/2018 18:12

I remember very clearly looking at my husband, bursting into tears and saying “I’ve changed my mind I don’t want to do this anymore!” I was walking to the car to drive to the hospital.
You are not unreasonable at all. Big hugs xxx

busyhonestchildcarer · 23/10/2018 18:18

My mother spoke about how horrible childbirth was so I too was petrified.Its painful of course it is but the time soon goes.Its nit an illness its a wonderful journey with a prize better than any you can imagine.You will be scared ,its new to you so only natural but this will pass and then you will have your beautiful baby.

mrsm12 · 23/10/2018 18:23

Congratulations! I'm ready for my dc to arrive but not sure if ready for labour again!!! Hope you are both doing well

dragonara53 · 23/10/2018 18:35

Congratulations 🌷🌻

adoggymama · 23/10/2018 18:38

Congratulations OP!  do we get any cute baby pics?😜

PipeTheFuckDown · 23/10/2018 18:42

YADNBU.

I have 4DC and the 2/3/4 babies, as soon as I started contracting I was like why the fuck am I doing this again Blush

Goggle4 · 23/10/2018 19:14

I wasn’t worried at all but i had an awful labour and birth, which i won’t go into!

I really hope yours goes well Smile just remember it doesn’t last forever x

Goggle4 · 23/10/2018 19:16

Oh he’s here! Congratulations 😍 i hope it all went well x

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