Would you date this man?

[Skynight90]

Seems lovely and is a very good father. He shows he's attracted to me but I see him lust after other women.
I have been tempted to give him the benefit of the doubt and date him but I also have dc and feel it may be a bad move on my behalf and could be wasting my time/get hurt as he clearly looks at other women in my presence already.

Although we are not together nor have we dated so he doesn't owe me any loyalty at this point but if he wanted this to go anywhere he wouldn't be giving other women the eye, would he?

@YearOfYouRemember
What is exhausting?

Sorry OP but I suspect she means your over analysis of 2 seconds of his life and how that ties into how he'll be as a life long partner when you've not even been on a date

Correct SSU

Oh right! Yes I just don't want to be wasting my time so I'm very cautious with whom date.

How embarrassing if he doesn't even ask me on a date after all the analysing

I would hate this. I think it's disrespectful. And it's early days with you and him, so theoretically he's on best behaviour.

It isn't early days. He hasn't even approa he'd her for a date.

This still going?

Remember chaps: no briefly looking at women unless other women who were thinking of dating you now think you are a perv. And no visiting your mother more than once a week!

How embarrassing if he doesn't even ask me on a date after all the analysing

It's great to be picky about who you date, but it would have been less energy IMO to have just gone to the pub with him for a couple of hours, than to sit around analysing him like this. And you'd have found out more - just think of it as data gathering.

And it's early days with you and him

It REALLY isn't.

He flirted, she cut him cold. But she does like him she's just secretly testing him.

He briefly looked at an attractive woman and he is not branded a perverted womaniser who likes young girls.

OP he's gonna read your not interested as not interested and move on. If you like him ask him out

If he looked at another woman knowing you could see him then I would assume he thinks you are not interested or doing it to get your attention?

To add I think you should let him know you are interested in him or I doubt you will be going on a date with him if he thinks you're not interested, he may well not ask.