To not get DD a crop top?

[Shruce]

DD wants this branded crop top. She's 10. AIBU to say no?

Yanbu

Grim unless for sport

Does she have breasts? I needed a proper bra at that age and luckily my mum didn't think my developing body was "grim". If her breast are developing she will need something for comfort as well as embarrassment factor. I though you were going to say she was 6.

No. My SD wears them and I honestly cringe when she comes out of her room in one. She has loads of them bought by her mother and I really really dislike the look of them on children.

I don't think she means to wear as an undergarment I think she means to wear as part of an outfit @ThisIsNotARealAvo

Is it the branding you object to? (Is it Pink?)

Because crop tops aren’t at all inappropriate for 10 year olds.

Link doesn’t work for me ??

Sorry, it's a crop top, as a top... no, it's not the branding, I'm not sure why I mentioned that (she has normal TShirts from that brand) but I just don't like how her stomach is on show and it's just very, very skimpy? She's only 10.

Oh sorry there wasn't a link?

www.justhype.co.uk/kids/hype-midnight-rose-kids-crop-t-shirt-b15b0f

It's this, but didn't link it originally

Ahhh- no, YANBU.

I don’t like them as outerwear on kids either.

I think with high waisted bottoms it might just about be okay, but if it's normal height bottoms, I really hate the way they look

I wouldn't say that the top in the link was very skimpy, I was expecting to see one like some of the tops that are basically fancy bras

I would not have a problem with the top in the link

That top shows hardly any skin, I wouldn't have a problem with that.

I think that's fine not at all inappropriate.

My 10 year old dd has this very top. I wouldn’t say it’s hugely cropped when on if that helps. I don’t see a problem with it.

I don't really like crop tops on anyone after 1989. Weird obsession with them in the UK. They, along with skinny jeans don't look good on most people.

I'd let my 5 year old wear something like that. It's just a cropped t shirt, I'm pretty sure I wore similar in the 80s! Just not with a short skirt.

That particular top doesn't look very cropped. Unless DD is very long bodied, it won't really show her stomach unless she lifts her arms up.

Just buy a vest top for underneath it.

Skimpy?! I’d let dd wear it no problem. She has a raving crop top from pineapple for dancing in and she sometimes wears it as a t shirt top in summer.

She won't want a vest top underneath. She WANTS to show her stomach I think that's my concern really, the reasoning behind wanting a crop top

I really dislike the look of crop tops on anyone young girls, but that top doesn't look too bad at all tbh.

I thought it would be like a sports top...this is fine imo...would stick a pink vest under for winter.

It's a short t shirt and it sits on or just above the waistband. I don't like Hype as a brand but the actual top I wouldn't even blink at. I have a 13,10 and 7 year old - pick your battles.

If I don't like something I just say no to my Dd. 13. She used to have a moan, now she rolls her eyes. I've told her she'll be an adult for a long time and can make those kind of decisions then.