I do wish people would just leave benefit claimants alone. In the grand scheme of things its a fraction of the money spent on other things and it does so much good for so many families. Without tax credits I would have had to stay in a shitty relationship with my emotionally abusive ex. It was only because I was able to see a way out that I could split up with him and start to rebuild my life and my family.
Weird is spot on. It doesn't just benefit women to be out of awful relationships - it is better for the children, too - they don't grow up seeing one parent bullied or even beaten, and learn how to have a dreadful relationship themselves, as abused or abuser.
There are also many people who have children, and are in a position to house feed, clothe and nurture them - and then suddenly, they are out of a job; or one dies or becomes seriously ill/disabled; or one deserts the family - and they are thrown into poverty.
I feel that it is ridiculous that the government won't help people keep their homes by assisting with mortgages when redundancy hits, but is prepared to pay housing benefit into the pockets of landlords, even when this is more than the mortgage would have been. So what if it means it is going to providing an asset for an individual? It's ultimately cheaper in cash terms, and infinitely cheaper in emotional ones.
The people who really benefit from top-up benefits and tax credits etc, are employers who pay shitty wages and leave the government to mop up the surplus - THEY are the real benefits cheats. I'm not talking about small business with comparatively low profit margins, I'm talking about huge organisations which cream in millions in profit for their shareholders each year and pay massive bonuses to their upper echelon staff while keeping the people who do the hard graft on the lowest wage they can. These organisations also tend to be very reluctant to pay taxes, and often make suppliers wait excessive lengths of time for their cash (many a small business has gone under waiting to be paid by a large one).
I know that there are many people who think that if anyone receives benefits, they should work for them - I've heard people sounding off about it "even if they had these scroungers cleaning the streets, it would be something!". Well, as far as I'm concerned, if the streets need cleaning, then there is a PROPER JOB, which should be offered to someone on a PROPER WAGE and with PROPER HOURS and PROPER BENEFITS - not shoved onto some poor depressed bugger who is worn down with worry about how s/he is going to put a pair of cheap trainers on the kids' feet because the weather has turned awful and the ones they are wearing are too small and they take in.
I'm sick of people being penalised for being poor - obviously e would all like more - it's human nature, unfortunately, which is how our planet is in the exhausted state it is - but when people start giving up their 50 grand a year jobs so they can get one for 10 grand/year and claim benefits, I'll believe that the "scroungers" are better off!