Question for the single parents with small children. Do you get maintenance from your OH and is this taken into consideration with regards to any benefits you may be entitled to?
They used to take this into consideration but when so many of these feckless dads just stopped paying willy nilly or made themselves unemployed to get out of paying it, it was seen to be an unreliable source of income and so now it isn't included, thankfully.
Some single mums get as little as £5 a week towards to upkeep of their DCs. Just think on that when you question why it isn't included. Even for those getting a few hundred a month based on CMS figures, think about how much you spend on housing, bills, food and clothes for your DCs and you will see that it doesn't go far enough.
I do get money from my DCs' dad, but I don't see why this should be excluded from any help I get financially, just to ensure that my kids aren't getting too much support! The amount he pays is a fraction of his salary and goes nowhere near half of what it costs to raise 3 children. If his contribution was taken off my tax credits I would be back on the bare minimum and my kids would bear the brunt of this, while their dad is on a £55k salary. They should be able to benefit, even in a small way, from their dad being on a reasonable income.
As it stands, with my income and tax credits we are on the bare minimum it is deemed necessary for a family of 4 to live on - with their dad's money, we do ok but are by no means well off and I have several thousand pounds of credit card debt. Reducing my income by a few hundred a month makes a massive difference, its not a case of tightening belts, but of having to fund everyday life on a credit card and worry about it when they've all grown up.