(D)H ate all the cake!

[TwittleBee]

So fuming atm, there was a lovely chocolate cake on the side from when my grandparents came over (only 1 slice had been eaten, by my nan). I said to him last night that he could have a bit after dinner if he wanted. This morning I go to grab some to take as a snack for work (we are tight on money this month so all I've got is a peanut butter sandwich otherwise) and find he's eaten the whole thing! He ate a load last night and this morning apparently.

AIBU to be fuming with him? I told him I'm upset and he said he doesn't see the problem.

KurriKurri true but we have 0 money so he has made me a nice meal with what we have in.

Missingstreetlife and BertrandRussell totally agree. He is usually pretty good at it too. Wonder if he isn't saying sorry because he doesn't think he done wrong but doesn't want me pissed at him still? Idk haha.

Oh I'm sorry Twittlebee - I'd missed the bit where you said you were a bit skint at the moment apologies. At least he's making you a nice meal. Maybe he should make you an IOU for a cake, so that when the next one comes along you get to eat it all !

RoseWhiteTips haha no he isn't surprisingly

Placating they call it, I hate it.

That's alright KurriKurri tbh it's probably what's upset me the most about all this is he knows we can't get treats like that ourselves right now

He's gone into work, told his mates that you are being unreasonable and they've given him hell.. 'A whole cake? That her Nan baked? Mate, get a lawyer, I'd divorce you.' And the whole day they've been going 'OMG you're not going to BELIEVE what TwattleBee did' and everyone's gone 'Oh too far dude, too far.'

No. He’s gone into work saying “Bloody hell, the missus is being a mardy cow! All I did was eat a bit of cake!” And they said “Feel for you, mate. But all you gotta do is run the Hoover round and cook something and job’s a good ‘un for the next 6 months. They love that sort of thing”

Still stuck on the 'favour'.

Yep! Being shown that you are married to a selfish pig is a favour. . You know what to do.

Except he didn't have work yesterday! Plus he isn't really the type that texts his mates about us having arguments

Anyway he did end up apologising, we were sat down on the sofa having a cuddle and he said sorry he didn't think and upset me.

Part of me wonders if it's because of some bad news I received from the DR yesterday that he actually cleaned, cooked and then said sorry rather than because he ate the cake haha.

I'd be tempted to leave around a cake that has significant amounts of laxatives amongst the ingredients.

@ItWentInMyEye That sounds lovely but I don't think its the right one. Thanks though