To not believe hubby?

[leighb23]

Few months ago I found "suggestive" texts on my hubby's phone to a supposed friend of mine. Today in the car he paired his phone to the car and it came up with the unread text message icon. I went onto the messages (he was driving) and it came up with her name. I said "oh, x" he immediately said oh must be old msg. When I opened it, it said something along the lines of are you still at the hospital with y (our little boy had a big seizure last week)
My head is rolling round like A spin dryer. I don't know what to believe. What do you guys think please?

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Sorry for hijacking your thread, leighb23, we hope that your appointment with the GP went well, and that you were able to be honest with them about what you are going through. Kindest thoughts to you and your child right now.

@Jammin because it carne from him but I didn't like her reaction to me afterwards! Blanking me etc, making me feel like it's me in the wrong! You can fuck off with that idea love! So I booted her into touch

Yes but your husband had made vows to you and didn't cut contact - so its not a case of who's done worse anymore.

It's horrible that two people close to you have put the boot in :(

Start another thread op and let us know how you are, you can link to it I think