To not want sex on demand especially in these circumstances

[easylover]

We're in a caravan in Cornwall with 4 teenagers. It's not been the greatest of holidays 4 of us so far have had a stomach bug, I've been stung by a wasp too! The caravan stinks cos of all the soiling and one toilet between us all. My stomach is still funny I'm burping etc I don't feel very sexy, one child is in bed recovering. Dp thinks by sending the others out to the arcade I can just quickly bend over as he's randy and having a shit holiday. I don't want to, atm I can't think of anything worse, but he's being really funny with me now. Aibu or should I just let him do it to improve his holiday. I just want to go home!

Er no, don’t just accept non consensual sex.

This can’t really be an AIBU can it? Of course you fucking aren’t.

No way! It could all go horribly wrong and then he truly would have a 'shit' holiday.

Tell him to piss off!

Seriously ?

Let him do it??
Yanbu. That’s not how a loving relationship should work.

Well he's making me feel unreasonable 🤷‍♀️

Wtf am I asking this for, of course I'm not he is

Tell him to be serious, he can surely wait until you get home and if not he can get acquainted with Pamela and her 5 sisters.

"all the soiling" 😱

Jesus Op that sounds like the most unsexy set of circumstances I can imagine.

Tell him to bugger off.

He sounds like an arse.

Whaaaaaaaaaat!!!!. Tell me if didn't just read those words then
"Should I just let him do it to improve his holiday."
You don't let anyone do anything you're uncomfortable with.

I can't believe the selfishness of him. You're on holiday not well and all he can think about is ejaculating. Has he never heard of having a wank.

It doesn't sound terribly romantic!

But no, YANBU. Tell him no and not to pester you for sex when you're not feeling it.

And they say romance is dead...

Bleurgh. How revolting.

He's not unreasonable to want sex. Youre not unreasonable to say no. Simples. Neither person has to be an arse here.

All of the soiling?! What?!!

Just don't. Not on holiday, not ever. Selfish bastard. Sorry.

Is this a serious thread?

I am so glad that I am not the only one who feels you shouldn’t have to grin and bear it when it comes to sex.
I get fed up of my friends telling me I should put my partners needs first and override my own feelings.
I agree with the majority here. If he feels that horny he has hands. X

Just get the shits, all over him. That should curb his boner nicely.

Shite on him OP.

@Anonnymouse54321

Why don't you just pack up and go home? It was never a good idea in the first place!

I think both of you should prioritise getting the accommodation into a decent condition for your children to be in