Husbands bought a hoover he knew I didn't like

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Fully prepared to be told I'm BU, but need to hear opinions. My husband decided
We needed a new hoover today, he went off and a new top of the range cordless Dyson, to replace our old Dyson. I hate the old one and said to him I would never have bought a new one. He said he knew that.

Is it me, or is that really disrespectful Only a hoover I know, but I seem to compromise on everything we buy for the house, and he's just pissed me off.

Meh. Dont like it, dont use it. He will hopefully think again on unilateral decisions now all the vaccing up is left to him.

Omg ltb

We have a cordless dysonat work it is monumentally shit

YABU. It's his dyson and he does all the vacuum cleaning, why are you complaining?

I would leave him 😂

Simple answer, refuse to use it - what's your problem?

He is obviously offering to do all the hoovering.

like PP said I think it's very generous of him to do all the hoovering - count your blessings!

His Hoover to use as he wishes, I think.

Throw it out of the window, accidentally obviously! 🤣

I’m envious, would love a cordless dyson! I’ve got a Miele Cat & dog and hate it!

He chose it, he uses it, simple.

He wants you to vacuum, you choose one you want else he has to do it forever and a day until the one he chose breaks.

Complete overreaction a hoovers a hoover they all do the same thing at the end of the day.

Take it back

Big purchases for items that you both use should be agreed mutually. So yes it’s disrespectful if he went against your opinion. Did both of you use the vacuum cleaner previously? I’d let him crack on with using the new purchase on his own if so. Win win

I love my cordless dyson

Take it back and get something else?

Ask him to take it back and get a shark

Yes, return for a Shark or Miele. Both great. Dyson are shite.

Oh god yes, his chore his choice no problem. My DH is King of the Vacuuming here and will get 100% choice. I haven't vacuumed in years come to think of it. All good here

YABVU to dislike the top of the range cordless dyson. I’d get it if I could afford it!

Seriously though yes I do think it’s disrespectful if he knows you don’t like it and you are both going to use it. Even more so if you are going to be using it more often.

My dad does this to my mum all the time. It pisses me off.

I sent dh out to buy a vacuum once (Ours just died, we had guests coming over, a moulting labrador, 1/2 of hair on the carpet and I couldn't get to a shop). Dyson Lightball, plastic and useless, especially on dog hair and stairs. Bought another new one within 3 months.

Oh good. He's doing the vacuuming now then, forever. Yay!

That sounds brilliant, because it looks like he's going to be doing all the hoovering from now on

DH did this (he also picked a Dyson which he knew I hated). I've never hoovered since.

Just refuse to use it. And don't back down. Ever.

DH decided on a whim to rearrange the kitchen cupboards one day when I was at work. Bearing in mind he never cooks, or helps cook but he knew where everything would be best.

Four days of me not cooking, it soon all went back .