To think friend should tidy up?

[sunrainandemmerdale]

I live a few minutes from city centre and I was away last weekend.
My friend was going to town for some drinks with her boyfriend and the hotel was going to be over £100.
I offered her to stay at my house and said she could stay in the spare room.
Got back on Monday and the place was a mess.
She filled my kitchen sink full of water and left the dishes in (all dirty and water nearly over the top)
My sofa had all the throws off and thrown on the floor.
My kitchen table had all the ornaments /flowers/candles thrown all over the floor.
One curtain was open and One was closed.
My bedroom (not spare room) there was no sheets on my bed and quilt cover was off.
They were in my washer (not switched on) and glasses and 2 cans of lager were left on my dressing table .
So angry

That’s awful. I wouldn’t be friends with someone with such little respect for me and my home, to be honest

Ewwwww, nasty.
My aim is to leave places better than I found them( esp if I’m being done a favour). It doesn’t take much.

Phlegm in the sink makes it worse than “that bad” just the thought of it makes me fucking heave!

When you stay with friends or at their home when they’re not in, you at least leave it as you found it as a minimum!!

Last time I stayed with a friend, she’d gone to work and I cleaned the whole house (bar her bedroom, which I didn’t go into) and left her a home made lasagne in the fridge for when she got home!

I wouldn’t dream of leaving mess for someone else to clean up, it’s just so bloody rude!

Yes, YABU. Unless you specifically told your friend what she could or couldn’t do, you can’t now complain about things like phlegm in your dishwater.

Said no-one ever.

But good on her for going out and getting smashed and having messy sex, all with a bad chest infection. I think we could all learn a lot from your friend.