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She’s threw away my bloody dinner!!!

132 replies

GoJetterGirl · 30/07/2018 20:29

Just a rant,

I had just sat down to dinner, baby kicks off needing a feed and a cuddle, I got him changed and settled and put into bed, and go downstairs to eat my dinner,

And the MIl has thrown it away!!! She bloody threw my dinner away!!!

2 issues here,

  1. it would t be so bad if she had actually washed up, I could almost forgive her if she was generally tidying up,

And 2) she has a mouth, why not ask if I was finished, I make it blatantly clear that I was coming back down to eat once baby was settled!! I even put a plate over the plate iykwim, so it stayed at least a fraction warm...

Gah, what did I expect really (you’ll know what I mean if you’ve read my other threads...

OP posts:
YearOfYouRemember · 30/07/2018 20:56

Clearly not since the food is in the bin!

JamPasty · 30/07/2018 20:57

Love, if you're who I think you are, you'd be justified in having roast MIL for dinner to make up for the meal you lost.

ElevenTwelths · 30/07/2018 20:58

Is she at your place? Throwing away food you bought?

EdisonLightBulb · 30/07/2018 20:58

And when you said "where's my dinner anyone!" She said what exactly?

myrtleWilson · 30/07/2018 21:01

I asked on your other recent thread how things were with the IL's -this one has answered it for me Angry

Am interested to hear what her explanation was though....

Takfujimoto · 30/07/2018 21:03

I would really, really struggle to not smack her in the face. I wouldprobablydothat wouldn't resort to physical violence, but she would most definitely get the sharp and blunt end of my mouth.
I would order something nice just for myself and then unplug her fucking fridge/freezer before I left.

Whatever revenge you chose just say you're Hangry.

What a nasty bitch.

Nanny0gg · 30/07/2018 21:08

Why is she in your house?

RomanyRoots · 30/07/2018 21:08

Why is she there?

witchofzog · 30/07/2018 21:09

Whose house are you at op? Not that there is an excuse anyway Angry

ellendegeneres · 30/07/2018 21:11

Seriously as if she’s not done enough. She’s a cunt. Can you not tell dh enough is enough now??

Fluffyears · 30/07/2018 21:11

That’s definitely on purpose but did your OH not stop her?

RomanyRoots · 30/07/2018 21:13

OP, you are not going to be happy until you go nc with your ils and possibly your dh.
it's time to tell them to fuck off, your previous posts have identified this many times, and people keep telling you.
I know it isn't easy but you have a little one to think about who doesn't need to be a part of your ils madness.
Time to speak up, OP.

GreatDuckCookery6211 · 30/07/2018 21:14

Ah yes I remember your other threads.

OP why do keep seeing them?

BackforGood · 30/07/2018 21:20

For those of us that don't necessarily 'follow' particular posters.
Are you eating at your MiLs (then going home)?
Staying there?
Or is she at yours?
Again, if so, staying there?
Can you explain what the other adults were doing whilst she was throwing away your dinner?

elephantfan · 30/07/2018 21:40

Anybody who throws away perfectly good food is ignorant and wasteful IMO.

I have no idea who OP is or any of the back story, but I am furious on your behalf OP.

ShumpaLumpa · 30/07/2018 21:44

I don't like these posts where the person doesn't say what they actually did or said to unreasonable behaviour. Did you go up to bed hungry? Did you ask her why?

GoJetterGirl · 30/07/2018 21:44

Woah, I stepped out to the local chippy and this thread blew up!!

DH was looking after eldest DC, who unfortunately is a bit off colour today and his meds aren’t really doing much for him...

In other news, I just smashed her tea pot that she brought along with her to make “proper tea” in... needless to say, she went apeshit... I’m sat here, eating my kebab, smirking to myself 😏

But DH knows, that if it ever happens again, she will find her shit in the street and she can fuck off home...

OP posts:
GoJetterGirl · 30/07/2018 21:45

I should add, I accidentally knocked it off the draining board while putting my food on the plate that my original meal should have been on that I had to wash up before I went for more food

OP posts:
kaytee87 · 30/07/2018 21:46

So what did she say when you asked why she'd thrown your dinner out?

GoJetterGirl · 30/07/2018 21:48

And when you said "where's my dinner anyone!" She said what exactly?

She claims that she thought I had finished, you know, given that I left the table...

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YouTheCat · 30/07/2018 21:48

Does she live with you or is she visiting?

Foodylicious · 30/07/2018 21:49

Smashed her teapot
Awesome work Grin
Shame it wasn't over her head.
Hope your kebab is yummy

LanguidLobster · 30/07/2018 21:49

And what was original dinner? Hope kebab is nice.

What a pity about the teapot, joining your dinner in the bin graveyard :(

NurseButtercup · 30/07/2018 21:49

In other news, I just smashed her tea pot

well done Grin

GreatDuckCookery6211 · 30/07/2018 21:53

Why do you put up with her?