How do you know my situations different, well yes it is, but you don't understand, when your non contact and people are for lots and lots of reasons, you only have to look on the relationship board on here to see that, but it all means the same thing, non contact is non contact. I was just using my example as I get the non contact. And trust me it takes a lot to go non contact, my brother told me 11 years before I went non contact with my father, what he was really like, I didn't want to believe him. Most people would go oh naught your never going to talk to your father over that wow, but it was 33 years of not being good enough, and finally finally the bridge broke. You don't know how long mr markle has been playing his daughters off against each other, although Samantha refusing to be called markle might give you a clue to that. You don't know how many little things Meghan and indeed Samantha kept secret and went oh my dad, until he faked papperatzzi suit buying shots ;(although harry should be used to that it was a beloved trick of his mother) and then made up heart surgery. Maybe those two things were the last bloody straw, mine was a lot lot lot more minor than either of those. My brother, mum, friends who saw partically the last three years I was in touch with my dad would never ever want to hand me my ass, they may want to hand my father his ass but they know what he put me through.
I love my dad, he's my dad, if you were to look at my twitter and instagram you'd be surprised that what happened did, that's the thing about social media twitter,Facebook, blogs, is their literally a snap shot, and quite often not true, I still to this day love my dad, I google his name occasionally I miss him immensely, see him talk to him no no no. Meghan may still love her dad but for her own health and safety not be able to be in contact with him. That's ok you know. I think it's rather weird you think that just cos she loves him because he's her dad, you can't see that there's very many reasons for her not to be in contact with him.
I said this on another thread it might be this one what the blithering hell does them being humanitarians have to do with the price of bloody fish. In fact many humanitarian/philanthropists come from not that stable backgrounds they do what they do so someone else doesn't have to go through the shit they went through. Families sometimes aren't good or healthy, it's not about being nice to them, or being handed your ass because you go non contact.
I'm very pleased that you've got an excellent family, who are clearly all lovely, but not everyone's is like that and I find it bizarre you can't see that