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AIBU?

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To think NOBODY is having sex tonight?

131 replies

RealEstateNovelist · 26/07/2018 23:28

My DH just tried to get near me and I couldn’t believe it. We are both just lying here sweltering. I can’t imagine doing anything that would make me more sweaty. Or touching his hot hot skin.

OP posts:
AudreyBillingham · 27/07/2018 06:31

YANBU - it's too hot to hold hands never mind any further bodily contact.

nonevernotever · 27/07/2018 07:12

YA so NBU - far far too hot here in Scotland. Even DH isn't sleeping with covers on and normally he's complaining about the cold and trying to snuggle in even when I'm roasting.

HRTpatch · 27/07/2018 07:14

Didn't stop us.

theredjellybean · 27/07/2018 07:18

Dp didn't seem to mind.. Very hot and sweaty in London, but then cool shower together. Now down in Cornwall and it's positively cool with sea breeze 😉 he's been away for two weeks..

fantasmasgoria1 · 27/07/2018 07:22

Not tonight but we have still been having sex regularly during the heat!

Rachie1973 · 27/07/2018 07:27

YANBU

My DH is a 'cuddler' whereas I like space in bed. He does this thing though where he strokes my back whilst I sit and read for 5 mins.

Its driving me mad, its like a hot water bottle on my back right now and I just want to slap it away lol.

I don't obviously because he's a darling, but sex. I couldn't bear the touching right now.

BootsMagoots · 27/07/2018 07:29

Managed a quickie here. No post-coital hugging though, now it definitely is too hot for that Grin

SugarIsAmazing · 27/07/2018 07:30

Do it doggy and there's less skin to skin contact Grin

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Cagliostro · 27/07/2018 07:32

yabu although we were interrupted by the baby waking up Angry

RealEstateNovelist · 27/07/2018 07:35

I am impressed by those who manage to do it despite the heat. I just can’t! I have lived in a hot country before but we had air con everywhere. But I guess people in the tropics without air con get used to it.

OP posts:
SomethingCleverandWitty · 27/07/2018 07:36

Yabu!!!

Although I was mortified when we'd er... finished and I realised DP had forgotten to close the window like I'd asked Blush

@Yellow maybe I'm your neighbour? Grin

CrochetBelle · 27/07/2018 07:38

You do realise that wherever you are isn't always reflective on everybody else's environment?

THEsonofaBITCH · 27/07/2018 07:42

You do realise that wherever you are isn't always reflective on everybody else's environment?
Hmm I think it was meant as light-hearted hyperbole. Why does everyone take everything so seriously? (Again, hyperbole) Grin

CaMePlaitPas · 27/07/2018 07:46

I did Grin

Supertiredmummy · 27/07/2018 07:47

YANBU mine tried the same and I'm on my period! It's 30 in the house and the fans shit . he's warm I'm warm and he knows I hate being touched on my period. Arse

SpoonfulOfJam · 27/07/2018 07:47

YABU!

We’ve swapped rooms with the kids tho. So not too hot in here.

restingbemusedface · 27/07/2018 07:49

My neighbours were at it at 3am and all I could think was ‘but it’s so HOT!’

Skyejuly · 27/07/2018 07:50

No way. Too hot

Gwenhwyfar · 27/07/2018 07:52

"I'm actually a bit chilly. Am I ill?"

I close the windows at night and am often slightly cold in the mornings. Not ill, just don't live in the same place as OP. It's been max 23 or 24 here for weeks. That's not a heatwave and it's normal to be chilly in the morning if you've only got shorts on to bed or something.

pippop1317 · 27/07/2018 08:04

😂😂 I've said to my husband for the last week "don't touch me"

Slimmingsnake · 27/07/2018 08:08

We had the baby oil out ,and the fan on...plus half a bottle of wine..plenty of sex here.😃

Bellabutterfly2016 · 27/07/2018 08:09

I'm pregnant and burning up as it is! Far too hot for any of that!!!!!!!

Think dp is frustrated however but it's tough! Far too hot for even a hug! It's bad enough with 3 yr old dd waking up and wanting us!!! She stuck to me last night!!

hormonalhorrorshow · 27/07/2018 08:21

Seem to want it more this weather. Sweaty bodies are nice and slidy. 3 times this week, on a leather sofa too 😜

SerendipityFelix · 27/07/2018 08:25

Had to pop out late in the car last night - outer North London - and it was still 29C outside at 1am Angry really ridiculous levels of heat! Still no rain or storms here either. The house is an oven. Neither of us are up for anything! Actually ended up lying top & tail cos i woke up and he was taking up too much space, couldn’t get comfy without touching him - we’re normally snugglers - so threw my pillow the other end to find spaaaaaaace.

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