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To feel sickened that this man is being referred to in this way (WARNING UPSETTING CONTENT)

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bigoldscaredycat · 18/07/2018 06:21

This man raped a three month old baby boy to the point where the baby needed corrective surgery.

He is now in a women’s prison in Canada where he has beaten up a female inmate.

THIS is where self ID leads. Men like this being incarcerated with women and their crimes being counted as female.

torontosun.com/news/national/feds-deny-paying-for-convicted-pedophiles-implants

www.newwestrecord.ca/dangerous-offender-in-b-c-loses-appeal-for-day-or-full-parole-1.23279132

Go on, Mumsnet, delete me for deliberately misgendering a male baby rapist.

THIS.IS.A.MAN.

Perhaps this story will illustrate why feminists are so up in arms about self ID.

I would love to see even the staunchest anti-women transactivist tell me that this person is a woman and that they belong in a women’s prison.

OP posts:
Prawnofthepatriarchy · 18/07/2018 09:22

The Times reports that up to half of transwomen in prison in the UK are sex offenders. This compares to 17% in the general prison population.

The percentage of male sex offenders in prison has risen from 10% at the turn of the century. I hope this is because prosecutions are being given greater priority and hence the conviction rate has risen, though I'm not confident that this is the case.

LunaTrap · 18/07/2018 09:24

I always wondered how the victims of Craig Hauxwell felt when he was being widely reported as a woman in the media. He was on the run after being convicted of a string of rapes but he was referred to as 'she' and Lisa. There is every chance his victims had additional trauma based entirely on the fact that he was a man- risk of pregnancy, increased risk of STD transmission. They couldn't identify out of those risks because Craig put on some lipstick.

CantankerousCamel · 18/07/2018 09:24

I had a friend/mathematician to break it down and males who identify as women are 5 times more likely to commit a violent, sexual crime than a woman. According to prison statistics.

Which is shocking. We cannot have them filling women’s prisons, we literally don’t have the resources

Candyflip · 18/07/2018 09:28

Bran this is in AIBU, I am really heartened by the response so far. There are only 2-3 posters who are stating this rapist is an actual woman. I think the tide is turning. Finally.

HopeMumsnet · 18/07/2018 09:30

Morning everyone.
As you can imagine, we have received a tremendous amount of reports on this thread and the associated threads that have sprung from it overnight.
We're going to try to tidy up a bit now, as judiciously as possible under the circumstances, and perhaps try to bring the TAATs under control and point everyone back here?
To those who have reported, many thanks, because of the volume of reports it might be that you just get an automatic response back from us, so apologies in advance for that.

Hangingaroundtheportal · 18/07/2018 09:30

I just don't understand why people are so keen to deny the facts (biological and statistical) that are staring them right in the fucking face when it comes to this stuff.

JayDot500 · 18/07/2018 09:32

LBC were talking about men who identify as women in prisons.

Candyflip · 18/07/2018 09:33

Oh ffs. I spoke to soon. Too many idiots denying biology. Again.

Amalfimamma · 18/07/2018 09:35

@HopeMumsnet

Please allow boos, "bitches" post to stand. I and others feel it is important to show ppl the tactics used against gc women

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 18/07/2018 09:36

I hope the women got lots of joy from beating the crap out of him.. He is a man. He committed his sickening act against a child with his Penis. Penis=man
Oh snd if these sick fuckers do want to be women. I'll happily oblige to cut their cocks off slowly and painfully.

TheBiologicalWoman · 18/07/2018 09:42

@HopeMumsnet

Please allow boos, "bitches" post to stand. I and others feel it is important to show ppl the tactics used against gc women

This

SalemBlackCat · 18/07/2018 09:42

This is one of the rare times that I held a progressive view, and have now gone back on it. Months ago I would have argued with people on here and elsewhere that a transwoman is a woman. I never held a strong opinion one way or another, but always gave idea of trans women positive thoughts and support - for some reason I can't find the right words, but, anyway. I have learned a lot on here about the issue and have read arguments that I never would have thought of. I have had a change of mind and heart. The OP is right, and it seems many are now having second thoughts about self-ID. At the very least, he raped the baby when he had a penis. So imo if he did the crime as a male, he should serve the sentence as the gender that he was at the time the crime was committed, and that would mean being placed in a male prison.

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 18/07/2018 09:43

This is nothing to do with anyone being transphobic. There is a colossal difference between someone who has been born in the wrong body than a twisted cunt suddenly deciding he wants to be women because he thinks he'll get an easier ride. and I'm sorry but That is what's happening.

bigoldscaredycat · 18/07/2018 09:44

@HopeMumsnet please tell me you are not going to delete people for calling a male baby rapist a man?

OP posts:
Skarossinkplungerridesagain · 18/07/2018 09:47

I believe that some people were born the wrong sex and spend a large part of their lives suffering because of it. I believe that with medical assistance they are able to change sex and it doesn't do any harm in referring to them by their chosen identity.

UpstartCrow · 18/07/2018 09:48

If criminals can change sex, then a persons history should not be erased with a ban on 'deadnaming'.

smileandwave12 · 18/07/2018 09:48

Awwlookatmybabyspider -
This is nothing to do with anyone being transphobic. There is a colossal difference between someone who has been born in the wrong body than a twisted cunt suddenly deciding he wants to be women because he thinks he'll get an easier ride. and I'm sorry but That is what's happening.

this!! well said Aww!

CantankerousCamel · 18/07/2018 09:48

Skaross

Clearly this thread shows that it bloody does ‘cause harm’

Candyflip · 18/07/2018 09:49

Skaross you do know that what you said is transphobic right?

Skarossinkplungerridesagain · 18/07/2018 09:52

No, I didn't. Because that was the exact experience of nephew. So how is it transphobic?

Branleuse · 18/07/2018 09:52

im going to be horrified if MN delete posts saying that a person that raped a baby with his penis, as a man, is actually a man. That would be pretty fucking pathetic and spineless if that happens

Hangingaroundtheportal · 18/07/2018 09:53

I believe that some people were born the wrong sex and spend a large part of their lives suffering because of it. I believe that with medical assistance they are able to change sex and it doesn't do any harm in referring to them by their chosen identity.

Why would someone who had spent their life suffering because they truly believed they were a woman trapped in a man's body, then go and rape a baby with the most male part of their body?

And it does do harm. If we start referring to men who commit crimes as women, then the statistics will be skewed, suddenly men aren't committing as many crimes, women are committing more crimes and suddenly it becomes a whole lot harder to call out male violence for what it is. Or do you not think the ability to highlight male violence is important?

Humans cannot change their sex by the way. Because, science.

Branleuse · 18/07/2018 09:55

and if any of you trans rights campaigners cannot see this as a fucking problem to the extent that you care about him being misgendered to the extent that you would report posts on here, then you are sick in the head

bigoldscaredycat · 18/07/2018 09:55

Skaross, that is your belief, that people can change sex. You are of course entitled to it. You have no right, however, to demand that others share that belief, and to call them names if they don’t.

OP posts:
Hangingaroundtheportal · 18/07/2018 09:55

im going to be horrified if MN delete posts saying that a person that raped a baby with his penis, as a man, is actually a man. That would be pretty fucking pathetic and spineless if that happens

They have already been through and deleted and the posts stating that rapist is a man have stood. As they should.