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To feel sickened that this man is being referred to in this way (WARNING UPSETTING CONTENT)

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bigoldscaredycat · 18/07/2018 06:21

This man raped a three month old baby boy to the point where the baby needed corrective surgery.

He is now in a women’s prison in Canada where he has beaten up a female inmate.

THIS is where self ID leads. Men like this being incarcerated with women and their crimes being counted as female.

torontosun.com/news/national/feds-deny-paying-for-convicted-pedophiles-implants

www.newwestrecord.ca/dangerous-offender-in-b-c-loses-appeal-for-day-or-full-parole-1.23279132

Go on, Mumsnet, delete me for deliberately misgendering a male baby rapist.

THIS.IS.A.MAN.

Perhaps this story will illustrate why feminists are so up in arms about self ID.

I would love to see even the staunchest anti-women transactivist tell me that this person is a woman and that they belong in a women’s prison.

OP posts:
Storm2018 · 18/07/2018 13:58

I don't think anyone with a history of sexual offending should be able to get a Grc.

CantankerousCamel · 18/07/2018 14:02

Storm

Now that would be a good change to the GRA

noeffingidea · 18/07/2018 14:02

storminamug have you read the link kindly provided by Kittyklaws?
It would appear mumsnet posters are not in the minority after all. So perhaps you should get over your 'incredulity'.

Mrsramsayscat · 18/07/2018 14:03

Quite, Storm.

nauticant · 18/07/2018 14:05

That's a good post Licoricetea. There are conflicting rights here and so applying unconditional acceptance is mad.

BeyondRadicalisationPortal · 18/07/2018 14:05

Great post liquorice, and welcome to mn!

Popchyk · 18/07/2018 14:08

But there are men with a history of sexual offending who already have a GRC. We know that because some of these people have been transferred to women's prisons.

What do we do about them?

Take the GRC off them? Send them back to a male prison under their male name?

Noqont · 18/07/2018 14:09

I don't think anyone with a history of sexual offending should be able to get a Grc.

Agreed

Aeroflotgirl · 18/07/2018 14:10

Totally spot on Licoricetea, exactly how I feel, and see it.

Aeroflotgirl · 18/07/2018 14:12

Pop they should have an area in a women's prison away from the biological females.

Licoricetea · 18/07/2018 14:17

Thanks for the welcome. This whole ares is a minefield; extremely emotional for those caught up in it; but also a very good reason not to rush to make hard and fast rules before a proper understanding of the consequences of this in the round has been afforded. As usual these days, people are so polarised, with no one prepared to listen to the other side, that nothing helpful materialises.

womanformallyknownaswoman · 18/07/2018 14:19

The one thing many women have learned, on here as elsewhere, is if you give an inch to TRAs they demand a mile. They are not willing to compromise and won't hear many women's and men's concerns nor that people can't change sex.

Their dirty tactics are all too familiar to anyone who has had to deal with a hostile ex. They cannot be negotiated with as their bottom line is women giving up single sex spaces.

FeminaSum · 18/07/2018 14:20

This thread is disgusting.

No, not 'ew, disgusting transphobes.' It's disgusting that someone can read about a man raping a baby and comment to point out that they believe he's a woman if he says so. It's disgusting that someone can read about a man raping a baby and comment that he's a woman because 'women can be evil too' or 'women can be rapists'

The MRAs will be very, very pleased when the male violence statistics seem to improving because of all the new 'female' rapists or groups of 'women' beating people up in tube stations. See, women are violent and evil too!

Noqont · 18/07/2018 14:21

The one thing many women have learned, on here as elsewhere, is if you give an inch to TRAs they demand a mile

Absolutely this.

womanformallyknownaswoman · 18/07/2018 14:28

I like liquoricetea☕️ both in real life and their comments on here - yes it's too much, too fast and no consideration of consequences for particularly data collection and for safeguarding women and children.

You know some of WPUK's 5 demands is that women are consulted and the process is respectful and evidence! It's hardly rocket science and shouldn't need demanding but it's been withheld up to the present - and even with the existing consultation there are many questions about the influence of the trans funded lobby groups like Mermaids &Stonewall plus the experience of whoever is assessing the submissions.

And yes Trans is very different to gay and lesbian homosexuality and has really come thru on their coat tails - but as a cohort they are very different from LGB.

BastardGoDarkly · 18/07/2018 14:30

Thank you @Amalfimamma

That's fucking ridiculous Hmm

Cryingrightnow · 18/07/2018 14:31

Man? Woman? Who gives a fuck this "thing" raped a fucking baby!

I held a three month old baby last week, they are tiny! Just like knew borns. How the fuck can any sane person rape such a tiny infant!!!!

They all need fucking killing! These are the type of people who keep me up at night! These are the people who give me anxiety every time I leave the house with my child!

There sick and should be given the death penalty! Then guess what? They wouldn't do it any more!!!

Fucks me off they gave this man/woman a a pair of tits after he raped a tiny baby! People need to wake up and stop arguing over the fact if he says he is a man or a woman!

People need to seriously stand up and take charge because these people will never stop unless the punishment fits the crime!!!!

I started a petition for tougher punishments for these sickos and hardly anyone even signed it et people more about it. I emails my mom the news papers to try and get it out there. No one was Interested!! Makes me physically sick!!!!!!!!

gunnyBear · 18/07/2018 14:34

This had nothing to do with self ID @bigoldscaredycat

Are you an idiot?

womanformallyknownaswoman · 18/07/2018 14:34

The MRAs will be very, very pleased when the male violence statistics seem to improving because of all the new 'female' rapists or groups of 'women' beating people up in tube stations. See, women are violent and evil too!

Exactly - one can see a mile off what the end game is because the evidence points wholeheartedly to male violence as being the number one issue facing us today - from Brexit to intimate partner violence (Famexit;)) the hands🤚 of entitled uncontained men is seen at the helm of furthering their own selfish interests at other's expense.

yet do many are duped by the gaslighting of identity politics

Cryingrightnow · 18/07/2018 14:34

Emailed my MP not my mum

Storminamug · 18/07/2018 14:35

Yes - thank you Kittyklaws. The idea that my views would align with 13% of Tory voters has surprised me.

BeyondRadicalisationPortal · 18/07/2018 14:35

Your mum might be interested too? Grin

bigoldscaredycat · 18/07/2018 14:36

No, I am not an idiot gunny. Are you?

In fact, don’t answer that. I’m not going to engage further with someone as rude as you.

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Aeroflotgirl · 18/07/2018 14:36

I agree Crying, people are just as upset as you. I certainly am.

womanformallyknownaswoman · 18/07/2018 14:37

Fucks me off they gave this man/woman a a pair of tits after he raped a tiny baby! People need to wake up and stop arguing over the fact if he says he is a man or a woman!

People need to seriously stand up and take charge because these people will never stop unless the punishment fits the crime!!!!

Well said - public money on elective surgery for a heinous sex offender -and rewarding his deviancy by transferring him to a female prison - what are jails for exactly - punishment or reward?

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