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Poss *trigger* To think this is disgusting and encourages pedophilia

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Bearfam · 12/07/2018 08:54

I came across this on the wish shopping app recently. I know pictures don't always work so quick description : they are male masturbation sex toys similar to fleshlight (brand name) they are designed to look and feel like vaginas. This is pretty gross for me personally but not disgusting I appreciate some people think they are fine. What I do think is disgusting is that the products are clearly labeled with the ages of the vagina they mimic and the youngest is 14. Below the age of consent. Am I over reacting here or is this basically allowing men to mimic sex with a 14 year old so therefore pretty problematic? I added a trigger warning as I'd rather be safe than cause any distress. Hope it is appropriate use.

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QuimReaper · 12/07/2018 09:20

Not that that would make any more sense...

Butteredparsn1ps · 12/07/2018 09:21

It's vile

And it's not appropriate to make a flippant comment, so I'm not going to speculate on the saddos penis sizes.

mehhh · 12/07/2018 09:21

Disgusting yadnbu

Bearfam · 12/07/2018 09:22

Wow lots off comments. To whoever said oh yeah right you just came across them. Me and my friend send funny / strange stuff we come across on Wish to each other. It then recommends stuff. If I remember rightly it is because one of us sent an allover fishnet body stocking then this came up.

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Babybearsporij · 12/07/2018 09:23

Not that I'm excusing it, but I think the age of consent in some European countries is still 12 - 14, so the company are possibly covering all markets? Still totally gross.

Bearfam · 12/07/2018 09:25

I'm glad others also think it is disgusting. What made me post was seeing apparently famous footballers advertising wish on TV. Its obviously a bigger site/app than I thought.

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PerryPerryThePlatypus · 12/07/2018 09:28

Yes Wish does recommend strange things. I bought my sister a rude novelty bottle stopper and then Wish started recommending crotchless knickers to me.

Firesuit · 12/07/2018 09:28

Is the 14-year-old one still unacceptable if used by a 14-year-old boy?

SheSellSeaShells · 12/07/2018 09:28

yuk that is vile!

GorgonLondon · 12/07/2018 09:32

Is the 14-year-old one still unacceptable if used by a 14-year-old boy?

Do you think 14-year-old boys are buying weird masturbation aids from China via an app?

PersonWithAVulva · 12/07/2018 09:33

Thats fucking disgusting.

Firesuit · 12/07/2018 09:35

The OP complaint is unreasonable. No-one is getting off relatively more because a rubber socket has a size of 14 rather than 22 stamped on it by the manufacturer.

The socket needs to fit the cock, what fantasy accompanies it is up to the user.

busybarbara · 12/07/2018 09:39

A piece of plastic isn't subject to the age of consent laws last time I checked so it's pretty disgusting to see people here comparing people to a lump of plastic. Would rather some silly man rub his willy in one of these than a real child.

FairiesAndChocolate · 12/07/2018 09:44

This site shouldn't be allowed to advertise on fb. Yesterday i saw a toddler dressed up in fishnet stockings under heavily ripped jeans with a cold shoulder top. Disgusting.

Bibesia · 12/07/2018 09:50

Firesuit, the point is that this implies that wanting to have sex with a 14 year old is normal and OK. That isn't an acceptable message to send out, at least in countries where that is actually a crime.

Chocolatecoffeeaddict · 12/07/2018 09:51

busybarbara, it's the ages that are concerning. Why can't they just use measurements Vagina size isnt exclusive to age.

SchadenfreudePersonified · 12/07/2018 09:53

Beyond vile! Really, really disgusting!

Bearfam · 12/07/2018 09:54

I didn't say that the age of consent applied to a bit of plastic. However it is designed to mimic a vagina of a 14 year old which is below the age of consent here.

Would rather some silly man rub his willy in one of these than a real child

Thing you miss spelt pedophile.

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YetAnotherSpartacus · 12/07/2018 09:54

The socket needs to fit the cock

Then market it by cock size.

Seasawride · 12/07/2018 09:58

Yeuk very grim

Oysterbabe · 12/07/2018 09:58

I get some weird shit pop up on Wish. Does anyone know wtf these are?

Poss *trigger* To think this is disgusting and encourages pedophilia
ravenmum · 12/07/2018 09:59

Age of consent is 14 in many parts of Europe, e.g. here in Germany.

Marmite27 · 12/07/2018 10:03

Oyster- I keep getting those pop up too Hmm

OutofTyme · 12/07/2018 10:07

How horrible. It's true that in many countries the age of consent is lower than 16. Imo it shouldn't be. I believe in Spain it's 12.

FriendOfScarecrow · 12/07/2018 10:08

o you just happened to find fake vaginas on a website no searching or anything rightyoh

I hd something equally iffy offered to me, actually. I don't think it's fair to imply people are pedophiles because a dodgy web app has a crap search function.