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AIBU to hate this heatwave?

151 replies

Punder · 27/06/2018 19:09

Ugh everyone keeps telling me to make the most of the sunshine but i am finding it unbearable.

Lunch break at work - everyone chose to sit outside in the sun. I joined them to be sociable. Within five minutes i felt as though i was melting into the grass. Meanwhile, my colleagues were going on and on about how nice the sun was. I am extremely pale (despite my dark features - i do not tan at all) and burn very quickly. Despite having smothered my face and arms in factor 50 this morning, they were red from just five minutes of sitting in the sun. I had to come back in for the air conditioning. My scalp felt like it was crawling due to being so hot (definitely not lice!). My underwear felt like it was sticking to me.

I feel sick and tired as soon as I go outside in this heat. Is it normal for the heat to affect me so much? I was dreading home time as the walk to the car park from my work exit is about 15 mins. It almost killed me.

Then, when I got into my car, I couldn't touch the steering wheel for around ten minutes as it was so hot. I had to open the windows and stand outside of my car for those ten minutes as I couldn't breathe at all in there, even with leaving a small gap in all windows earlier in the day. And it takes a few minutes of the engine being on for the AC to kick in. Even then, the air felt hot to me.

Just home and went to hang the washing out. Almost fainted. I just felt so heavy and tired and out of breath (normally I'm quite fit!). As soon as I come back inside, I'm right as rain. Definitely not heat stroke or anything as it happens every single time the heat hits us and disappears as soon as I enter the shade. Year after year the heat affects me like this.

Also - as a side note - the wasps and flies and beasties! They are everywhere. Every time i throw one back out of the house, another two turn up.

I hate the summer! Surely I'm not the only one? Autumn is by far the best month. Mild temperatures and lovely, crunchy leaves (and no wasps!).

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InterstellarSleepingElla · 29/06/2018 20:47

I would have said you were not being unreasonable however I ordered a reasonable sized pool which arrived this morning and spent most of the day in it with an icy drink! So as long as I can spend time in that then I am going to enjoy the weather!

However if I was in work/couldn't sit in water all day I would thoroughly agree with you! Normally much prefer Autumn but now I am torn!

SinglePringle · 29/06/2018 20:52

I absolutely bloody love it. Especially as the humidity is low in London so it’s not sweaty.

I could have this weather all day, every single day.

ReachOutAndTouchDave · 29/06/2018 20:53

Oh YADNBU. I loathe it too. I get debilitating headaches because of the heat and they're very painful. I get sunstroke really really easily.
Glad there are others like me around!
How do people who love it sleep in it?!

busyboysmum · 29/06/2018 20:56

I just have my window open all night. A fan might help as well. I got one for my son whose bedroom is in the loft so gets hot.

CurlsandCurves · 29/06/2018 20:58

I’m not usually a fan of really hot weather unless I’m on holiday by a pool. But actually it’s not seemed too bad where I am. Because the temperature is dropping away at night. If I can sleep at night, I can cope. It’s definitely better than other summers where the temp barely drops at night.

That said, I don’t like that fact that my house doesn’t feel aired or clean. Aired because there is no air and clean because I’m too hot to bother.

Pinktails · 29/06/2018 20:59

Yadnbu, I'm with you op. I can't stand much more of it.
I dread going to upstairs to bed - even with 2 fans on all night it's
like Dante's inferno.

BishopBrennansArse · 29/06/2018 21:02

It's fabulous for my arthritis pain. I'd love it hot and dry all the time.

UrsulaPandress · 29/06/2018 21:05

It's weather. Get over it.

SamanthaH92 · 29/06/2018 21:06

YANBU its far to hot. I can't get my little ones room below 27 degrees 🙈. Going through loads of electric with the fans on all day and night. I'm also 36+3 weeks pregnant. Its turned in to a battle on our street over who can play 'music' the loudest , day drinking sat on their doorsteps and people bringing there tables and chairs outside so you can't walk on the pavement! I thought it was ment to cool down this week coming but apprently not!

melodybirds · 29/06/2018 21:07

Yabu

Sit inside at lunch. Treat it like its pouring with rain. Its a week of being unsociable.

Waiting in your car is no different to having to defrost it accept it's a week

Don't take the washing out if you want you csn hang it up inside but you obviously like the opportunity.

If you have to stay inside its no different to the cold or rain.

It's a week.

WTFdidwedo · 29/06/2018 21:13

If you have to stay inside its no different to the cold or rain.
This is just not true. It's 28-30 degrees in every room in my house all day and has been since Monday here.

SittHakim · 29/06/2018 21:15

It's not a heatwave! It's perfect weather. Cool mornings, lovely warm days, cool nights. I love it, I can't remember the last time we had nice weather for such a long stretch at once. I'm in London, and travelling to work by Tube wearing a suit; it's really not that bad.

I accept it's rubbish for anyone with hay fever, though.

WTFdidwedo · 29/06/2018 21:16

It's not cool mornings and evenings for everyone though!

wrenika · 29/06/2018 21:18

It's miserable. I've invested in a dyson tower fan and have pretty much parked myself in front of it all day. I'm not built for heat.....

Ollivander84 · 29/06/2018 21:23

My dad spent about £150 on some kind of cooling tower that works as a fan but also mists cold water. We laughed a few years ago when he got it

He's now sat blissfully in front of it with a smug grin

HemanOrSheRa · 29/06/2018 21:25

I bought a dyson tower fan last year. It's AMAZING!

melodybirds · 29/06/2018 21:30

This is just not true. It's 28-30 degrees in every room in my house all day and has been since Monday here.

But in winter my flat is freezing and to heat it is too damn expensive. The difference is this is so rare. If it was week after week like winter I'd be more sympathetic.

I don't understand why people hate light days and not have to take a coat and umbrella. Even in the morning getting on the shower is lovely not being freezing. There's more people walking about. It gives you vitamin D. Where i am it cools overnight too but even if it didn't I'd take this any day over cool weather.

Accountant222 · 29/06/2018 21:33

I'm desperate for September to come along

WerkSupp · 29/06/2018 21:42

It's not a heatwave! It's perfect weather. Cool mornings, lovely warm days, cool nights.

The usual: living in London so assumes the entire UK is exactly the same. It's not cooling down much in the mornings or nights in some places and it's not 'lovely warm' when it's 30 degrees. It's considered a metereological heatwave and some places are starting to run seriously short of water.

WerkSupp · 29/06/2018 21:43

I don't understand why people hate light days and not have to take a coat and umbrella

Because they have health conditions like hyperthyroid or RND that's exacerbated by heat, they have hayfever or asthma and are ill in the heat, they are pregnant or perimenopausal and have a raised body temp and this level of heat makes them sweat excessively and be miserable, all kinds of reasons.

toastedbeagle · 29/06/2018 21:45

My garden looks rubbish! I am at work all day so missing the heat thank fully - as a freckle person it's just too damn hot for me.

Saying that I have made some precious memories letting the kids run through the sprinkler like I did in the 80s!

SluttyButty · 29/06/2018 22:02

I live in a new build. It's wonderful on fuel bills in the colder months keeping all the heat in but it's a total bastard with this heat unless I run fans 24/7 in certain rooms, close the thermal curtains etc. It's not fab for everyone.

9amTrain · 29/06/2018 22:02

@melodybirds Because it makes them uncomfortable, irritable, feel sick and a myriad of other reasons.

I don't like being freezing either, but at least it doesn't make me feel weak and faint and unable to do anything. It's much easier to warm up than to cool down.

liverbird10 · 29/06/2018 22:08

I love the light nights, just despise this heat. I can't cope with it.

paddyclampitt · 29/06/2018 22:09

YABU. I love it! It's been nice for the whole of May and June, and no end in sight! So nice to have a proper summer :)