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Semi see-through dress to a work do

127 replies

whatyadoing · 10/06/2018 22:08

No, I'm not entirely thick, but we have a work event on Thursday and the theme is Caribbean.

I bought this dress.
Unfortunately I only tried it on this evening and it's a little bit see-through.
I've nothing else to blooming wear for this god-damned themed crap. I've bought a colourful necklace yokeymebob for around my neck and will wear nude coloured underwear (still have to buy the knickers) but....
Would you completely re-think outfit? The fabric is quite thin...?

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whatyadoing · 10/06/2018 22:21

It's not a necklace lol, it's a ruffly flowery thing like they give to people in Hawaii

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Atalune · 10/06/2018 22:22

Have you got anything with a big floral, or plant print??

Headscarf and big earrings would be good with a plain maxi dress.

steff13 · 10/06/2018 22:24

I've never heard the term beach dress, but I'd assume it's something you'd wear over a bathing suit, and that is what this looks like, IMO. I'd think a maxi dress with a large floral print would work.

snowsun · 10/06/2018 22:24

Can you attach a slip under it.
Flip flops , ankle bracelet.
Brightly patterned bikini top.
Plastic flowers in your hair.
Lots of bangles
Sun glasses
And a big fake cocktail glass

Job done.

MismatchedPJs · 10/06/2018 22:25

My mistake I thought you said necklace.

Denim shorts are a great shout if not too informal for the event

whatyadoing · 10/06/2018 22:26

I was planning on wearing a wide brimmed summer hat. I don't have anything printed AT ALL. I'm very minimalist lol in terms of clothing choices, though usually not as minimalist as this particular item. I have a pair of shorts. I guess I could just wear a plain top and the garland necklace thing and the hat.

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Kerry987 · 10/06/2018 22:26

It looks very Caribbean. I would feel a bit naked with it. But if you look good on it and feel comfortable go for it.

1981m · 10/06/2018 22:28

Buy a slip to go underneath

Birdsgottafly · 10/06/2018 22:28

Whoever came up with this, is on dodgy ground.

"Guys are supposed to be in Hawaiian shirts and shorts."

Hawaii isn't in the Caribbean. Why do you keep mentioning it?

Or are facts like that unimportant because the history/culture/lifestyle/people of the Islands are unimportant?

whatyadoing · 10/06/2018 22:28

Good job I tried it on before I rocked up semi naked haha!

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Jaimx86 · 10/06/2018 22:28

Send it back and get actual clothing rather than beach wear. Something like these dresses.

Jaimx86 · 10/06/2018 22:29

^attached

Semi see-through dress to a work do
Semi see-through dress to a work do
Atalune · 10/06/2018 22:29

Charity shop for a print scarf that you can do twist knot head scarf with. I would say the dress is a bit short for a work thing, I would be fretting I’d show my Ass by accident!

Atalune · 10/06/2018 22:30

What size are you?

Birdsgottafly · 10/06/2018 22:30

But all you need is a tropical dress. Or do a bit of research, pick
one of the 28 Countries and go in their Flag colours.

whatyadoing · 10/06/2018 22:30

Believe me, we've already had the discussion about Hawaii/Caribbean lol - I think they really didn't think through what they were saying. Theme is Caribbean and guys are clear on what they've to wear (Hawaiian shirts). Girls - no such guidance, pc or not!

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CoughLaughFart · 10/06/2018 22:30

Is that even a dress? It looks like a blouse to me.

AnneLovesGilbert · 10/06/2018 22:31

Not sure it’s really a dress. I agree it looks like a nightie! You don’t want to be pulling it down all night.

whatyadoing · 10/06/2018 22:31

I'm size 6/8.

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CoughLaughFart · 10/06/2018 22:32

*Hawaii isn't in the Caribbean. Why do you keep mentioning it?

Or are facts like that unimportant because the history/culture/lifestyle/people of the Islands are unimportant?*

Seriously? She’s going to a party, not writing her dissertation.

whatyadoing · 10/06/2018 22:32

I have nowhere to shop - it's on Thursday and I'm working all week!

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AJPTaylor · 10/06/2018 22:32

buy a hawian shirt like the men and wear with shorts. or just a bright coloured dress

NashvilleQueen · 10/06/2018 22:33

I do agree with PP that it’s an odd theme to have gone with. Risks a bit of cultural insensitivity and potential offence. Hawaiian and Caribbean culture are not interchangeable.

Atalune · 10/06/2018 22:33

What about a little play suit in a bright colour?